help help help girl promblems?

Question

okay me n my girlfriend broke up, because she was lying to me about lot of stuff. then she went to the doctor, she has some type of disease, now she is calling me all the time, trying to make me feel bad because i left her, and we have a son together, wat should i do? i told her i could be her friend. I could be someone she can talk too. i don't wat to do? and i still have feeling for her

Answer 1

Well first of all you need to decide wether you want to get back with her or not. and on your decision it needs to be a firm one, like a definate no turning back decision. If you dont want to get back together, then you need to decide if you want to be involved in your sons life. If you dont want to be with her again and you do want to be in your sons life then you will need to ignor her petty comments on trying to make you feel guilty. Yes you still have feelings for her, its understandable, you have a child together, have history together, its normal to have feelings for her, it shows you care for her, and you can still care for her and not be with her. ....Yes you could be her friend but that would most likely complicate things even more because you would try to be freinds and eventually it might lead to more. so if you for sure dont want to be with her state it, and tell her u still want to keep in contact for your sons sake. if she starts whining and complaining just keep reminding her that its for your son, obviously your adult relationship is over and now u want to do as much as u can for your son's sake.