what would you do if you knew this twisted secret? Part 2?

Question

Last Week I asked this question:
So.. my aunt had an affair with our coworker.. My aunts married for 20 something years [since she was 18] and the guy she cheated w/ works in our office and has a wife, who was PREGNANT at the time he was f*cking my aunt. My aunts husband is the nicest guy in the world, and our whole family loves him. We'd be devastated if he wasn't in our family. Now everyone in our family knows what happened- besides my grandpa and no ones has told her husband and we all feel guilty. We dont care much for our aunt... but we dont want to hurt her husbands feelings. ALSO when her husband went out of town w/ their kids she had a one night stand.. im the only one who knows about this. We feel like we need to tell him.. but don't know if we should?? We're all tired of the lies... what do you think we should do??

Now its gotten worse:
She got fired from our company, but is now going to work for the guy she had or is having an affair with? Now i feel obligated to tell

& I forgot to mention her & her husband are buying a house together as we speak.. i feel thats big commitment and he should know what hes getting into..

Answer 1

Someone could drop hints to your aunt's husband in their presence. For instance, let's say you saw the aunt and her lover having lunch, walking down the street, etc.

While around her AND her husband, you could say

"Oh, sorry for not saying hi to you the other day when I saw you at lunch. You seemed to be involved in a conversation with (him)." Then maybe the husband will see the reaction of your aunt and have his own suspicions.

If she met the one-night stand at a bar and someone who knew her saw them, there is another hint dropping situation..."so, did you have fun at Jim's bar and grill sat night?"