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Question

Guys do not judge other guys because they dont compare other guy to them selves they just automatically think they are number one. Girls judge girls because they compare themselves to other girls.

Answer 1

A lot of guys are much more sensitive than that, they just don't go on about what they dislike about themselves as much as some women do. I don't really think girls judge other girls more than anyone else.

Answer 2

Guys probably do more comparing than girls but less judging. Most do think they're number 1 at something. Girls are also more harsh in their judgement of other girls, guys just usually move on.

Answer 3

Guys are more relaxed about it, because there is more at stake for girls form a evolutionary point of view and less for guys. Girls are competing with eachother for the best man for reproduction, and they need to get it as right as possible. Guys are less fussy, as long as they can get in on the act, without giving the reproduction side much thought....

Answer 4

I totally disagree. Most guys compare themselves to others and find themselves coming up short - just like we do. I mean, sure, some of us are meglomaniacs, but most normal people, regardless of gender, are looking for where in society they fit in best. The fastest, easiest way to do that is to see what other people are doing with their lives/looks/smarts and compare it to their own accomplishments/abilities/tastes. We all do it, some just aren't as effected and/or verbal about it.

Answer 5

I believe that guys do judge other guys, but on a more internal and definite level. We do typically consider ourselves number one, but we are also territorial, watching for threats to our social position and space. We typically avoid complaining, as it reveals weakness, and prefer action to defend our image.

We turn to our own values instead of looking for others to validate our assessments. When we judge other guys, it is much less of a question or an open forum for discussion, but more of a finality of opinion. Instead of, "Don't you think that guy is such a jerk?" We say, "Man, that guy is a loser!" At this stage, we are mostly posturing and improving our status. As inferior threats arise, we become like hunters moving in for the kill. After it becomes clear that "our prey" is particularly vulnerable, then we pounce. This is common in office politics. Instead of saying,"Isn't that guy the rudest moron you've ever seen in this company?" We say, "That guy's incompetence is a liability to the team. It's time that we let him go."

My answer is that guys are less discussion-oriented (except for posturing) and more action-oriented, when it comes to judgment, than girls. Nevertheless, I do have to agree with a previous answer in that my status is much more important to me than the status of others, and I will quickly "call off the dogs," when it becomes evident that I might stand to loose more than I gain in my process of judgment. Overall, though, I am very interested in assisting interested parties in improving their status (though not at my expense), but that is not likely just a personal thing, endorsed by as many guys as girls, I'm sure.

Everyone judges everyone, thus enabling us all to discover appropriate roles in society. Guys are just more aggressive and forceful (oftentimes physical) about it. Girls are more active, and verbal about it.

Answer 6

Its related with self confidence i guess n also thinkin abt details. Maybe this cud be coz of girls dont cheat so much n therefore guyz r feelin themselves confident n dont waste their time with comparin themselves with others. He is sure that his girl belongs to him n she wudnt look at another guy. But girls r afraid of other girls coz her guy wud like any other girl n cheat her.
I dont know itz the hardest thing to understand a man.

Answer 7

I think guys do compare themselves to other guys. They just don't say anything because they don't want to show their insecurity... Girls are more insecure, and emotional than guys (for the most parts)
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Answer 8

I wouldn't say that's fully true. Us guys do compare ourselves, just in different ways. We are more competitive in our actions, rather than our appearance. We do tend to have a "we're number one" type attitude that allows us to not dwell on a lot of things that women might.

Answer 9

Partially true.

Men tend to "check themselves" to determine if they are "successful enough." That is, how they perceive they compare with other men. "Looks" don't usually factor in the equation for the usual fellow as it would for a woman.

Of course, this is speaking about a man that is grown...out of school, etc.

Answer 10

The essential and basic answer to your question is that the operative elements of the MIND of each cause each to value different things as important or relevant to each.

The male operates from the Yang energy nature of the MIND, and the female operates from the Yin energy nature of the MIND. The Yang energy nature is outgoing, while the Yin energy nature is ingoing. The male is naturally inclined to a Left-hemisphere [non-emotional] view of life. The female is inclined to a Right-hemisphere [emotional] view of life. The characteristics of each are determined by the inclination of the MIND of each.

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