Breast Implants?

Question

I have beautiful breast but not as big as I would like so I have talked about brest implants since I was 18 I am married now and my husband goes along with the ideal of me getting them now I have the money to get them it is like he is scared of me getting them! We are trying to get preg now so I told him that I would wait and if I am not preg by the first of the year I am going to get them. Our sex life is very bland I thought they might help spice things up I know they will make me feel better about my self! So how do you feel about getting them or your wife getting them? (by the way I am 23)

Answer 1

I'm 35 and getting them next year. I can't wait!!
As long as you are doing it for you, I say go for it!

Answer 2

I have also flirted with the idea, but I don't want to. They are not permanent. You will have to get them replaced in a few years. The average time is about seven years.

And between that time, you may have to have a capsulectomy which is a surgical procedure in which they will have to remove scar tissue from around the implant. (The scar tissue makes it hard and is a natural biological response to a foreign body within the body.) And after you have them removed or replaced in the next seven years, your boobs will be flat as pancakes because the bulky implant will be removed.

PLUS there is no way they can GUARANTEE good placement and they may be a little off. PLUS (and this is the thing that stopped me from going forward) you will have the stiffness when you are doing it. I personally like my breasts jiggling when I am having sex. It turns me on, and to have big pretty breasts that DON'T move???????? That just sucks. It's not worth it.

I am a full C cup. And my guy loves it. So, while I'd love to be a double D, it isn't worth it if I can't keep them, and if I can't see the jiggle when it counts!

Answer 3

There's absolutely nothing wrong with getting breast implants and if it makes you happy then you should seriously consider it. Talk it over with a doctor to see if you're in good health, and discuss the specific details of the procedure. A doctor should be able to tell you when us too big, and if you go too big that's when you get health problems. As someone before said, the surgeries that turn out badly are usually pretty extreme. You only want to go about a b or c (idk what size you're at now) which is hardly extreme. I'm just letting you know though, I don't know what you look like but a b can be quite small. I'm a b cup and I'm so flat chested I look like a fat little ten year old :(. I too want implants, and I'm considering saline. Yes, they can burst as can silicone, but saline isn't dangerous and it will just be absourbed into your blood stream. The material you use for your implants is one of the details you should talk to your doctor about. As for anyone going on the "love your body" rant: you either love your body or you don't. And if you don't, you probably never will unless you change it, at least a little. Yeah, it kind of sucks but that's just how it is. I personally find it hard to love my body with the recent media switch where you see a lot of full figured women boasting about how great curves are. Not everyone's curvy >:(

Answer 4

Unless you are regarded as deformed,--and you said they were fine -- your wish for breast inplants is a real can of worms. And if you have not been told explicitly of the complications, here are a few. (Interestingly, we in this nation have been sold a bill of goods as just to what is regarded as beautiful, and television programs give us all the idea that plastic surgery is just a cake walk .. not so.)
Inplants are not forever -- they can burst with a good mammogram, which means you are in for a second surgery. It is difficult to get a good image with a mammogram. They tend to shift, and encapsolate, making the breast rock hard and one may even become asymetrical in relationship to the other. They can leak. The sensation to your nipples can be reduced or entirely severed. If they ever have to be removed (very likely) the breast skin is stretched, and then you are in for a breast lift surgery, which for sure will end all sensation to the nipple. (since during this surgery, the nipple is actually removed, and placed higher!!!!)

Sweetie, this is a vanity surgery, of the worst kind. Since your breasts are healthy, leave them alone. I am all for cosmetic surgery -- braces, dental repair, nose jobs, eye jobs, face lifts, even chin implants. And I have had all of those. But there is no way I would risk the health of my perfectly good, very pretty ( but not huge) breasts. Have had several friends who have had that surgery, and 10-15 years later they had them removed, or were sorry they bothered, and were going to have them removed..One friend has had three surgeries after her first implants -- the first implants, removal, and a second set put in, and encapsulation of one breast, removed, tissue had to be removed with it, and therefore the other breast had to be adjusted to match, finally both implants removed, and a breast lift (That's four surgeries, isn't it, not three, sorry. All on the same friend, and all done by the top plastic surgeon in her area -- the top man!!!!!!). Similar stories with my other friends. Do some of your own asking.......

Answer 5

I think if you're relying on breast implants to "spice up" your marriage, you might be barking up a wrong tree. Unless you really have a problem (a flat chest) - it sounds a bit like "compensating" to me. I think, working on your self-esteem in other ways may produce a more solid and long-lasting change, and will ultimately benefit you more. But that's just my personal feeling. I've never considered implants; although my breasts are not large by any means, I've never had a problem attracting men, and have been complimented on this part of my anatomy many times.

Answer 6

I think its a decision only you can make i have very large breast a d cup and i still plan to have implants not for size but because its cheaper then a lift that you have to redo every 5 years.. Good Luck and enjoy your new breast as long as you get a good doctor they will look great for the rest of your life

Answer 7

Usually the fake ones are too easy to spot when the female is undressed. By this, I mean that implants make both breasts look the same, when in nature one is usually a little different from the other.

Answer 8

I'm 23 as well, I would love to get them, but my husband doesn't think it's necessary - he loves me the way I am, etc. You also have to think of when you do get pregnant what affects will the implants have on breast feeding.

Answer 9

It would be a beter idea to wait until after a pregnancy to get them. Your body will change and if you get them first, you will have to get them redone.

There's nothing wring with wanting to improve yourself, but you will be considered a bad candidate for surgery if you think they will solve self-esteem problems or fix your marriage and sex life.

If your sex life is bland, try new things. Get creative. Get a camcorder. Try writing each other naughty stories that don't really end, but close with "your turn" and give to your partenr to add on to.

Your sex life will only be spiced up with equal effort, not by changing yourself.

Go to www.drphil.com and look at the transcript of the show on plastic surgery that was on last week. There's also links to good/bad reasons for plastic surgery. Check it out.

Answer 10

I think it's ridiculous and such a shame that it's becoming the norm. What you need is a boost in your self esteem not new boobs. I know a couple of woman who had boob jobs done and they said that it was the worst pain they ever experienced for weeks after. Seriously put the money away for the baby you are trying to make. If your sex life is blah, buy a book on how to spice it up a little.

Answer 11

Beautiful small breasts are way better than any type of store bought boob you could possibly get. I have yet to see ANY store bought boob that looks natural. Don't give in to the idea that big breasts are all that great. Trust me, Darling, I'll take your beautiful small breasts over anything a doctor can put on your chest. DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!