i know its easy just to have a baby thats ur own, but wouldnt it be better to acutlyl have a baby and know wot u saved it from. and blood may be thicker than water, but since when did that matter? u can love a person like it was ur son or daughter. so how many peopel r actully considering it?
2006-10-17 06:10:03 · 12 answers · asked by som1 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
can i jst say solitaire, babies arnt there for u, it isnt some second optionm to go for, thet're not some stupid little kids peopel run to when they cant have their own. they are their because someone couldnt take care of them. and u can but wont.
2006-10-17 06:27:01 · update #1
I would like to adopt when I am in my mid 30's (dont care which country or which sex, as long as the child (doesn't have to be a baby) is healthy)
I actually envy Angelina Jolie for that one reason (NO not taking Jenn's husband Brad!lol) But she has 2 beautifull adopted children (Maddox & Zahara) her biological daughter (Shilo) and another adoptee on the way!! That is impressive and what I call LOVE! Good luck to all TTC and adopting!!
**BTW...for all those ppl saying "if we cant have children,I would adopt" "oh it's so nice for those ppl who can't have kids"...HELLO.....NOT all of us adopt (or are going to) because we can't have children of our own (yes mabey some) But some of us care about other's and after or before or inbetween our own biological children if we want to adopt that's FINE!
2006-10-17 07:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by babyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 1 daughter, 1 on the way-due anyday, but I would ove to adopt a child...if I could only afford one more. I will be done after this one!
But my husband is adopted and I think it is a great opportunity to have. Why not save a child and help out right?? All the child deserves is a loving home/family.
2006-10-17 14:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blood isnt thicker than water, family is. Trust me, I have blood that mistreats me worse than any family member should.
We're adopting from Mexico after our first and before our second. And possibly after the second as well.
If more people adopted the world would be a better place.
Love is a choice, you have to choose to love your biological children just as much as those you adopt. There is no difference except genes.
2006-10-17 13:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We have been trying to have a baby for almost 6 years now with two miscarriages this past year. Our next & last step is insenimation & if it doens't work, then we will adopt.
I would love to have a child that is blood, but there are so many children out there that need a family also.
2006-10-17 16:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by Karla S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always wanted to be a mom. I am so happy to be pregnant and having one of my own. However, I would be just as happy to get my second child from somewhere else. Because there ARE so many people whose lives would be changed if they were adopted. And I know plenty of people who have adopted their first or second child. It's a great idea.
2006-10-17 13:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by Cara M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adopting a baby isn't the right thing for everyone. Me and my husband can't have our own children but adopting is not the answer for us either. I have been brutally honest with myself and have asked myself if I could love somebody else's biological child like I would have done my own and the answer is: no. It wouldn't be fair for me to adopt as a second choice.
2006-10-17 13:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am adopted. I would never adopt a child. Adoptees have no rights what so ever. Until they have the right to know everthing about their birthfamilies I would not adopt a child. I am lucky enough to have my own kids. And it is cheaper that way too!
2006-10-17 13:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would love to adopt, whether i could have kids or not i would love to beable to give a child from a different walk of life a chance and a new life, but my boyfriend wants none of it he has the attitude that its someone elses child not his
2006-10-17 13:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by charlotte66621442000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I could not have babies I would consider adoption.
And I am glad adoption excist, for there are people who can't
have babbies and this would be one of there options.
2006-10-17 13:22:33 · answer #9 · answered by Solitaire 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think it would be great to adopt but everything in the media makes it look too difficult to do. i think it puts people off trying.
2006-10-17 13:21:02 · answer #10 · answered by claire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋