We all know what a shotgun marriage/weddings are, "grenade divorces" are when the Ex gets everything and leaves you in the road on a milkcrate! Its happened to some friends, they got blown out of the water! Still wanna get married ? does he/she know about it or are you going to spring a "surprise wedding"
2006-10-17 05:58:45 · 13 answers · asked by Latin Techie 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
BOTH would suck extremely -- and the Grenade Divorce (where the greedy, vindictive ex wants everything) happens quite often -- it is only by becoming your own best advocate that one can SURVIVE this type of abusive and aggressive ex (who hires the same type of lawyer in the divorce) -- so you have to be able to make your point about your ability to survive, what you had PRIOR to the marriage, and your own ability to WORK HARD and be able to SURVIVE that helps you outlast one of these common ex's.
2006-10-17 06:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by sglmom 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would prefer a grande divorce to a shotgun wedding. If you loose everything, so what? It's just things, you can get anything back. However if your forced to marry you have to share your life with someone you might not like, and be living a unhappy life. I would rather have nothing and be happy then have everything and live with someone I can't stand.
2006-10-17 06:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Brian 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
A grenade divorce without a doubt!
In a sot gun marriage you can learn to love that person, but in the grenade divorce, you want to kill somebody.
2006-10-17 06:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok - so after a divorce I can start over from scratch. No big deal, just depends on how bad you want out.
Shotgun wedding? Sure it's not bad if you've been dating and you're really into each other, but face it guys. How many women have you had sex with just for fun with some girls who were just 3 briquetts short of a BBQ?
The idea of having their father come after you to marry the ditz because she's pregnant.....jeeeze it'l make your head spin.
all cause you didn;t pull out in time. Welcome to the rest of your life.
uhhhhhhhhhhhg
2006-10-17 08:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by Use another Nickname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grenade divorce. shot gun just means the kids are coming...grenade...whoooooo, would rather be left with the dog inthe trailer honey.
2006-10-17 06:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage sux - especially when your spouce THINKS they are trying hard and they are really just being a jackass all day long not working, watching TV and playing video games all day!
RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR now I'm mad!
2006-10-17 06:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way you git it in the end! And the worst part is they dont use Lube and make ya think ya are happy cause they F*CKED YA!
2006-10-17 07:09:35 · answer #7 · answered by the_saint1963 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One goes before the other. Both are bad, and both get worse.
2006-10-17 06:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by lilac b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SURPRISE WEDDING!!
2006-10-17 06:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by kittykatishere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both sound awfully violent!
2006-10-17 06:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by The FFX Blitz ™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋