i have been with a man i am totally in love with for 2 years. our sex life is amazing... the physical and emotional connection is electric. but i have never orgasmed through penetrative sex. lord knows he is big enough, and he makes me orgasm in every other way.
the only problem is he doesnt last long enough for me to know whether its me thats the problem or the length of time we go for?
HELP!
2006-10-17 05:24:42 · 7 answers · asked by Emma B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He`s not helping any by going of the boil to early,he needs to relax more and play for longer.He could also try playing with himself and stopping when near orgasm then starting again,keep doing that untill he can last a long time
2006-10-17 07:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by Chikpea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going on top but with your back to him. Also when you get close to orgasm stop thinking, just relax and take deep breaths. The more you think about it the less it's likely to happen.
Try not to worry about it, this will make it less likely to happen.
And if it doesn't don't worry its not the be all and end all. Just help yourself along while doing it doggy style. Or go on top facing him, lean back and let him use his hand on you as well.
2006-10-17 06:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by Georgie's Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've given up trying.
Now he sees to me ( for want of a better phrase) before penetration.
If you do discover a fool proof way of achieveing orgasm during penetrative sex please let me know, would v. much appreciate it
2006-10-17 07:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by silly billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 21:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem up until 2year ago when i met my new man. . . .. . and by god he can make me orgasm thro SEX, jesus he does know all the right ways!!! So i think it depends on the partner ans the connection you both have together!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-17 23:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him to masturbate to completion before you make love, that way he will last longer. Also, you get on top for full penetration, and you can move your hips so that it will be more pleasureable for you.
2006-10-17 06:38:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys only last 3to6min. most of then 3min. it not the size that matter how its use
2006-10-17 17:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋