what's the solution for a husband who has higher sex drive than his wife, he still need more sex. "divorce him" or "dump him" is not in the list, that's not how things get solved.
what should the wife do with such husband, especially that a man go thru pain and frustration if he didn't get the sex he needs.
and he is a good husband.
2006-10-17 04:50:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to compromise so you both get what it is you desire
2006-10-17 05:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always Always first things first talk about it. Maybe the wife just needs alittle help. Find out what really turns her on and gets her ready to go and do it maybe she's not that interested because it's all about him. Then again my boyfriend is like that but we have opposite work schedules so Friday, Saturday, and Sunday is our only time to get it on! During the week he keeps himself entertained by watching some porn and I guess enjoying his OWN company. At first it bothered me I though I wasn't good enough and maybe I was doing something wrong but that wasn't it he was just lonely I guess you could say cause he only does it when I am gone. When I'm there cloths are off and it's on.. So just talk about it if you really love each other you can compromise meet half way. A relationship is two people not just one and when you love someone there's nothing you shouldn't be able to do or fix for that matter.
2006-10-17 05:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ideally, the couple would meet half-way, where she gives him more sex than she, herself, would otherwise have, and he settles for less than what he would otherwise have. But this is an obvious solution, and the fact that it has not been implemented suggests that there are other issues. I don't know what a realistic suggestion would be here. "Pain and frustration" suggest that either the gap is so great that bridging it would be next to impossible, or that he is a sex addict who can't control himself, which is also a problem. Perhaps they could consider seeing a marriage counselor.
2006-10-17 05:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, yeah pray all you want but that's not going to do crap. Your god will not help with sex. You could try going about it yourself but it might take a long time and you might meet many dead ends which could be hard on the marriage. If you want a fast and effective method to dealing with this issue, you'll go and see a sex therapist. A sex therapist is experianced in these issues as well as communication. The therapist will facilitate communication between you and your partner and offer some effective solutions. It's important to know what both parties are feeling and to make sex desirable for the both of you. For your sake, please take my advice.
2006-10-17 05:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by b-rad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What surprises me is that his sex drive is higher then hers. A woman (if she truly wants it can go on forever, it is the man that gives out first). If he has a high sex drive then I'm surprised that she is complaining instead of enjoying. all that she has to do is lay there and let him have his pleasure if she doesn't want to join in with. But believe me that is a loss. If she were to play with him and please him more his sex drive would start calming down, but the more that she neglects him the more tempted he will be for it and if she does not relieve him he will find someone who will. If he is good to her and she loves him then she should want to be good to him as well, not leave/divorce him just because she turns him on and gets him excited. That should please her not disgust her!
2006-10-17 05:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey is that you? This is a serious problem that I suspect affects a great many married couples. Good comunication is the key, unless you want him to wander or be miserable you need to find a solution before resentment sets in. If you want to increase your libido, talk to youy OB, there may be help there. If you want your husband to find a FWB, and can get over any jealousy, help him out. The main thing is communication. Let me know what works, and maybe we can use it.
2006-10-17 05:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by medic 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
most men have a higher sex drive than their wives- so are we talking every day or what??? If it is way = way too much try to find a happy in between= like every other day instead of everyday- be glad he wants you=and enjoy it- and if you are having pain or discomfort during sex = see a md- that is not normal= D
2006-10-17 05:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends...if the wife is open to new ideas...maybe consider bringing in another woman to play with him and her (at the same time of course)...or if she is REALLY open and trusts her husband, let him have a playmate or two on the side? (of course there should be rules for this kinda play and the wife should have say over who the woman or women are and how often this play occurs)...I know this isn't the normal solution but if he is a good man and the wife loves him...and ya know...3somes are really hot (I have them with my husband :) ) Hope this helps...good luck to the husband and wife :)
2006-10-17 05:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by Luv_bunny 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My bf is fifty two and that i'm 27. He nonetheless has a extensive sexchronic and our intercourse existence is vast. He does not take nor does he want viagra. look after a healthful weight and attempt to sidestep intense blood tension (blood tension drugs reduces your sexchronic and might reason erectile disfunction). additionally, stay lively. do no longer provide up masturbating. Masturbation is healthful! to boot, no longer masturbating now won't help your sexchronic later.
2016-10-02 09:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try tending to his needs without intercourse. Generally that does the trick for most men.
It might mean you stretch your current boundries some but at least its healthier than adding another partner to the mix.
2006-10-17 05:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your life is very busy and you don't have the energy that he has. there are engry drinks!. maybe the romantic situation isin't there anymore, plan a trip. something new in the bed room, buy some toys. i know u don't want to hear this but a man will find it some where else (tapes,video,clubs) fight what eva you are felling so you can keep him happy! try your ob!
2006-10-17 05:27:58 · answer #11 · answered by AC 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋