Would you date a girl who is 24, working and going to school part time with 3 small kids? She is beautiful (i mean beautiful) and a really great girl that fell for the wrong kind of men.
Her ex (with him for 6 years) is a complete LOSER-27 who doesn't work and does meth and lives at home now with his mama!
This terd has somehow brainwashed her into believing that no one could ever love her because of her "bebe's kids" (baggage)
- Im trying to convince her of how wonderful she really is and that there are plenty of great men out there and one that will REALLY love her and treat her like she should have always been from day 1- and who will accept her kids.
_positive responses..please
2006-10-17 04:48:14 · 5 answers · asked by ♥kailababy♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
first off yes there is somebody out there that will treat her right and take care of her and kids. please dont refer to them as baggage, and dont let her. they are her kids and if somebody doesn't like that she has kids then that aint the right person.
second when she starts going out and meeting people, tell her to say she has kids up front, but they should see each other a time or two and see if they like each other, then let him met the kids. cuz kids do get attached very easy and if the two adults have nothing in common then it will be hard on the kids if they stop seeing each other.
and tell her to remember to be her self. dont dwell on the i have kids nobody wants me.
me and my gf have been together for 3 years and this is how we met and did, for the first week or to so i know it works!!
good luck to her!!
2006-10-17 05:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by jarheadndn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes but it is always finding the right guy. if someone dates her and falls for her, no doubt they will learn to love her children if they really love her. Most likely though, honetly, most guys her age might not go for 3 kids yet. There are tons of 30/40 year olds that love dating 20 year olds, and they are a little more mature, sure about themselves, maybe even more financially secure, and they would love the kid idea too. This is a general statement of course.
So continue giving her hope, but help her stay away for the a s s holes out there. She needs good judgment on men here on out.
2006-10-17 05:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by Batman has left the building 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her of corse some1 will love her cos what is baggage, i'll tell u wat i think it is just an excuse and if sum1 loves they wont care if u have 3 kids or 300kids. Ok tell her to cheer up because i kno she will fall in love wiv sum1 cos i believe that everyone has a perfect partener and if she hasnt found him yet that she will find him and they will live happily ever after and what guy doesnt like kids, i mean i love kids and i am like nearly every other guy out there in my views and stuff. So Chin up and don't get down anymore cos life is like a rollercoaster u get ur ups and ur downs so she just has to wait for her next up. Wish her luck from me please. Chris G. xxx
2006-10-17 05:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom met my stepdad when she was near 30 w/ 2 kids. And he's 5 years younger and fell in love w/ my mom... If my mom was lucky, your friend will be lucky to find the man that will love her and her kids...
2006-10-17 05:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by qbanita0113 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of corse i would ,i love kids, is it you ,your really asking about honey
2006-10-17 05:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋