will my parents ever forgive me ?

Question

becuse my parents and i got into argument becuse they didnt want me going out with my boyfriend day told me if i was going to be with him that day didnt want me at the house so i lift one day they came to my school to tell me to come home but to leave him i told them that i would think about it but i decide to stay with my boyfriend

Answer 1

Your parents should never have said anything like that to you. You come to a point in life where you have to live and learn and it is obvious that is where you are at. But if they didn't want him at their house they had every right to say they don't want him there, but not who you can and can't see. They can express their dislike of him. I think they will get over it. Your relationship with your parents is just growing in a different direction and they are not taking it well, but they will mature and move on to make better decisions or at the least respect the fact that you have a right to make your own decisions. Just make sure you are ready to take full responsibilities for your decisions if they happen to not be the right one. Good advice from parents is never a bad thing.

Answer 2

We never want to think our parents are right when a boyfriend or girlfirend is involved unless it agrees with how we feel. And sometimes its hard to fully understand their point of view, because the person your dating you have gotten to know on a totally different level. But what I have learned over the last 10 years of dating and the last five years of having a teenage sister and two teenager brothers.... boyfriends and girlfriends come and go, usually faster than the seasons change. But at the end of the day your parents are the ones who are there. They are the ones who put food on the table, a roof over your head. And as crappy as it may seem, you only really have to take into consideration their opinion until your 18. Then for the most part they will let you live your life as you see fit. But from their prospective you have to understand that they only get 18 years to groom you into being a wonderful person, and sometimes that means pointing out people for whatever reason that you shouldn't be around at this point in your life. Try talking to them, but really open up and listen to what they have to say, because im guessing this isnt your first boyfriend and probably wont be your last.

Answer 3

I'm not sure I understand the question because there were a lot of mistakes. But I think the only way your parents will forgive you is if you mature a bit and quit thinking of just you and your boyfriend. Your family was there long before the boyfriend was. There must be a reason as to why your parents don't like him. Until you are 18 you are susposed to do what they say. They won't forgive OR TRUST you until you behave and earn that trust back.

Answer 4

You are apparently still in school and not ready to take on the challenges of the world, working and supporting yourself on your own. You need an education, unless you want to work at McDonalds, Jack-in-the-box and make minimum wages, which will not pay the money needed to support you.

They are only thinking of YOU and your future. You should be also. A boyfriend is NOT going to take care of you... Not at this stage.

Yes, I understand you really like this guy. But you have to keep focused on your future and not what your heart tells you in this brief time in your life.

You have a responsibility to your parents as you are their child. They support you and YES, while you live with them, you obey the rules. Hard to take, maybe. But in the long run, you will be much happier. Your parents are not your enemy, they love you or they would not be requesting you abide with their wishes.

Good luck.

Answer 5

You have to remember that your parents love you and want what is best for you. Take a step back and look at the whole situation, why don't they want you with your boyfriend. I know it is not because they just want to be mean and make you miserable. I bet there is something about your boyfriend that is either dangerous or will make your life difficult in the future.

Answer 6

It is important to know that your parents will forgive you no matter what. It is there job.

My dad told me I was allowed 3 mistakes growing up and if I passed that I was kicked out of the house. He told me after I graduated college that he would have never kicked me out of the house, but the thought that he could cut me off like that was a mental nightmare. Your parents will love you no matter what you do!

Answer 7

I think you should think carefully about your bf. If they say that then they must be knowing something bad about him that you don't.

Remember parents care about their children. Imagine you as a mother, you would only do good for you daughter.

Don't worry, they will forgive you but remember your bf might leave you but your parents are always there for you.

Good luck and hope you make the correct choice.

Answer 8

Yes they will forgive you. They will always forgive you no matter what you have done. They are your parents and they only are looking out for your best interest. So keep that in mind.

Answer 9

I hope they never forgive you...... Still young and in school and choosing your bf over home? You've a really big mistake - now turn it around and go home. No bf is worth what you are giving up

Answer 10

if your older then 18 you should move into your own house/apartment. if your younger you need to go to your parents house and ask them if you guys can talk this out for the benefit of both. like... once a week you can go out with him or something. discus it