i tried to get him to admit it by sending a message from him to me using EBAY ITEM 200036530416 saying i really love you sally. i showed him and he looked really confused as he knew he hadnt sent a txt but also ooked guilty
2006-10-17 04:40:42 · 24 answers · asked by Rach 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave him like you should of done when he cheated the 1st time
2006-10-17 04:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him outright hunnie!!! If there's any doubt in your mind and you don't trust him, then you should call it a day. Relationships are built on trust and if you don't have it then your fighting a losing battle. You'll always wonder and that's where the problems start, reading txt's, checking with his m8's listening in on phone calls, believe me it really isn't worth all that, it only makes you hurt more, you'll become more miserable than you are now not knowing. My ex cheated on me and I knew deep down so did the same thing and it only caused me 2 worry more so I was constantly calling and texting him to see where he was. It put loads of pressure on both of us and pushed him away even further. Every time I asked he denied it until one afternoon we slept together, things were good then he said he was going to his cousin's so might not see me that evening. So I said goodbye n arranged to meet my friends in our local. I walked in and he was stood there with the other woman, who he had apparently bin introducing to all our m8's as his new girlfriend. I was heart broken. Don't make the same mistake as I did and hang onto something that should already be over xxx
2006-10-17 12:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by crazychicklisieloo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very fact that you have had to try this "faithfulness test" means that the trust between you is gone, and irrespective of whether he has or hasnt cheated, without trust you cant have a relationship.
You either have to trust his answer and risk getting hurt, or decide that there is no trust and move on. Setting up tests will only lead to you splitting up anyway.
2006-10-17 12:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by wondergecko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont play games with him - just ask him outright - tell him that your suspicious that he might be cheating on you and that the only way you will stay is if he's honest with you.
If he says he's not been cheating, tell him that he needs to help you build the trust back up between you both
If he says he has been cheating - dump him like a hot coal.! no one deserves to be treated like that - and its obvious if this is his second time that he wont change - YOU CAN DO BETTER.!
2006-10-17 12:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he cheated before why on earth are you still with him... any guy i have ever been with i have fallen so hard that even thought of him with another woman makes me wanna vomit! so finding out that any of them actually did would be like ripping my heart out!
If i found out my guy had cheated on me i couldnt look at him in the same way again...LET ALONE TAKE HIM BACK!
get rid of him honey. find yourself a man that respects you enough to say when he has had enough, rather than doing it behind your back!
and better still after a few of those guys... you end up finding a guy that doesnt want to touch or kiss of any other woman but you.... he is out there somewhere honey go and get him. Dont be a gluten for punishment!
GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-17 12:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by Emma B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-17 12:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by carl j 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you suspect him,there is a problem. I f he looked guilty its a bigger problem.
Just talk to him nicely. Coax him into telling you the truth.Though basically cheaters always cheat BUT if trully repent from their hearts its possible not to cheat again.
2006-10-17 12:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by kool-K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once A Cheat Always A Cheat !!
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2006-10-17 11:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well his name is Charlie? Charlie Barley Puddeny Pie. Kissed the girls and made them cry...when the girls came out to play, Charley Barley ran away lol. okay I substituted the name from Georgie Porgey
2006-10-17 11:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know the saying is "once a cheater, always a cheater" but i dont always agree with this. it depends on the person and the situation. if you suspect he's cheating again tho, dont try to catch him out, just be staright with him and ask him..........if he is a descent bloke, he wont lie to you if you ask him. if he denies it but you know he's lying then leave him. your worth more than that.
2006-10-17 12:17:11 · answer #10 · answered by cheeky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If trust broken once you will be suspicious for the rest of your relationship with him. So ... save yourself lots of trouble and try to find another BF. Or accept his behaviour (if you want to be crazy!)
2006-10-17 11:54:48 · answer #11 · answered by Everona97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋