I have a boyfriend of a year, one minute he tells me he's madly in love with me, and the next minute he says he's not. When I bring this up to me, he gets very defensive and says that he has never lied to me and that he does love me and care about me, and that he would do anything for me.
He says he has never cheated on me, and has never liked another girl while with me, but I've found out twice now that he has indeed liked another girl and has tried getting a girl to like him. He also has said that if he did like someone else, he would just break up with me and tell me that he was no longer interested.
I'm in love with this boy and would do anything for him. I'm very lost and confused at this point and I don't know what to do. I've recently been disowned by the only faimly I've ever had and he's really all I have left.
Now if you're just going to give me some lame stupid reply, then don't even waste your time answering this.
2006-10-17 04:26:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well it sounds like he really likes you but im not sure if he really know what love is. If he did try to talk to other girls then that means that sooner or later he will cheat. but before you start worrying about that consider the source where you heard the rumor. Some people will just try to start trouble between you because they either want you or him. But at the same time if he is being shady then i would look into those rumors a little more because he might be sneaking around and that is where the additude comes from. Good luck with everything, hope it all works out for you
2006-10-17 04:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he loves you and later he doesn't than that means he can't decide whether he wants to be with you or move. It happens. Sometimes I think something is right and later think it is wrong.
Ask him firmly whether he loves you or not. Because if you spend more time with him and later he leaves you, then you will be more heart broken.
Don't worry about being disowned by your family because I think almost 90% get disowned by twenty. You can find a guy who loves you or stay with him and trust him.
Good luck and hope everything goes well for you
2006-10-17 04:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through something simular to you. but he broke up with me and then got with her two days later. i dont think this guy knows what he wants. i think he might want two pieces of cake instead of just that one. he has lied to you, might have cheated on you, and he has betrayed that feeling that he "has" for you. its going to be hard but maybe you should leave him. i know that you have no one to run to but what about your friends? do you think they want you to go through this? take my advice not as just some girl with the same situation but as a girl that has gone through it and is still trying to get over it after 6 months. if he really loves you then hell realize it and hell be back later but if he is just playing games with you then he might even cheat on maybe his new girlfriend with you. most guys arent worth that pain and sufering. and if you have a feeling that something isnt right then maybe it isnt. just think about you through all of this. even if you dont have anyone to turn to better alone then in bad company.
2006-10-17 04:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by Daisy Carlos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really tell him how you feel. don't wast your time with someome that doesn't love you back. you are only setting yourself up for a lifetime of heartach. you deserve someone who will love you!
2006-10-17 04:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋