i've become a dad at the age of 12 and my parents are angry... advice on what i should do??

Answer 1

just chill!!

Answer 2

Congratulations! You've just joined the ranks of being a father
who may be the youngest one in the world. A world record
holder at 12 years old!
Your parents may be angry with you but to no avail. What's
done is done and it cannot be undone. Just face the reality.
Now comes the hard part. Being a father is no easy job when
you're 12 years old. However, you must carry the full
responsibility of caring, loving and providing for the baby until
he reaches 21 years. In the meantime, plan to marry the girl
who bears your child so as to make it legitimate - for registration
of baby's name, insurance beneficiary, school records, etc.
Finally, you should get a steady job to support your wife-to-be
and child. Don't let anyone deter or condemn you from this
unfortunate incident which you should be proud of.
Good luck and God bless you.

Answer 3

That is a little too young to be fertile. I would get a test the minute the child is born. I don't think it is yours.

Are your parents rich? If so that is why they picked you to be the dad. She was already that way before you did your thing. You was picked by her or her family because of the wealth of your dad and mom. You have to understand that the more money your parents make the more money they get. If your dad and mom make $100,000 per year she can get up tot 20% of it so that would be $20,000 a year. That is enough to live on. If the child is yours, your parents need to take the little one from her. You need to chill out and go to school and get a good job to pay your parents back. Remember by the time you are 18 years old you will owe them 6 years already.. About $120,000. That is a lot for a child to start off life oweing.

Good luck..

Answer 4

You will not like my answer I know I am not going to tell you "CHILL OUT" that is the last thing you need to do. You need to be reading on how to care for a baby. You and your gf are babies yourselves...

Maybe this will teach you what a condom is

But you are going to grow up fast in a hard world....Can you provide for this baby a lot of states will not give a work permit until your 15/16 so that may cause a problem.....And are you guys going to push off the baby onto your parents to care for this isn't fair to them they have to raise you still as hers does her plus now a baby........maybe adoption is an option even with in the family......you both really need to think seriously what kind of life you can give this baby you have brought into this world.....I am not being a bitc* I went through this when I was 16 my sister adopted him here I was 16 and could not handle it you are 12.....I don't regret the choice I made he was much better off I could never give him the life he had.....you really need to do some thinking........good luck

Answer 5

well id b so angry it wouldn't b funny they haven't raised you to go toss your thing in a women at 12 omg u fool u have messed up your entire life what a dummy u r and if i was her parents omg u better run no fly fast u have created a monster here and messed up the life's of 2 families was it really worth it/one time c u thought u were so damned cool well how cool r u now go figure how will u get a job joke nobody will hire a baby u r not even a teen id spank u good and then make u work really hard somewhere to pay all those bills and u would wish to God u never played with fire your parents R SO HURT AND HERS TO SHE REMEMBER THIS BUDDY SHE IS THE ONE THAT HAS TO CARRY THE BABY WITH THE HUGE BELLY AND ID PLASTER YOUR NAME ACROSS THE FRONT NO SYMPATHY HERE 4 U U MADE IT NOW GO LIE IN IT FOOL

Answer 6

They've every right to be angry at you but probably very worried for you too, so young to have the responsibility of being a dad. The best thing you can do is work hard at school get yourself a good job and support your child. This way you will earn the respect of everyone.

Answer 7

keep calm and just accept the situation you are in get help as well from parenting clubs or even join one online.just for support coz at the moment all fingers are at you and noone close has really got to the reality they are still all in shock but calm down just be there for your child and the mum they need you more than anything else at the moment dont loose heart coz you cant cry over spilt milk

Answer 8

PUT IT UP FOR ADOPTION. KEEP IT OUT OF YOUR LIFE. YOU CANNOT BE A GOOD FATHER TO IT, FINANCIALLY, SOCIALLY, & ALL WAYS.

KNEEL DOWN PRAY TO GOD AND BEG HIM TO FORGIVE YOU AND HELP YOU COPE. PROMISE GOD YOU WILL CHANGE YOUR WAYS , AND AVOID WOMEN TILL MARRIAGE. you are a sinner , you have fornicated - a MORTAL SIN - you have angered God . You could have masturbated to relieve yourself - but you had to be a big shot and go for the real deal. Be ashamed of yourself, and avoid women altogether. You can do without them in your life. It's easy.

Learn that sex is just one thing in life - it's not all of life - don't be a slave to lust. Ask your parents' to forgive you. Dump the kid into an orphanage or foster home. Forget it. but pray to God to change your lifestyle. Danger is that you'll do it again.

My folks would have beat me to a pulp, then called the police & tossed me out for good. they wouldn't stand for that behavior.
Your folks didn't raise you right. At 12 yrs old you have no right to even know what a woman is. Go finish school & college, but change your ways. Pray to God & read bible & attend church or shul. Repent & reform yourself.

Answer 9

Face the music with your parents and get a job to support your new family. Kiss college or anything further goodbye, and hope your parents are nice enough to help you.

Welcome to the real world, and don't post stupid questions.

Answer 10

Are you being serious? You need to take some responsibility and act accordingly. Discuss the situation with your parents. Perhaps birth control would be useful next time you sleep with someone?!

Answer 11

I also fornicated at that age. so i see nothing wrong with that. however it seems that you are to imature to deal with the resposablility of using a condom or some form of protection. So since you were thinking with the the wrong brain you now have to pay the consequences