You're 19 and in college. It's not like you're 12. You're an adult now. If you want to move out and can, move out.
2006-10-17 03:32:20
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answered by Anonymous
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It depends, do you have enough money and are you responsible enough to live on your own or with a roommate? Will you be able to handle that freedom? There is a lot of "grown up" things you need to take care of yourself when you are out of your moms house.
Consider these things:
You will more than likely be doing your own laundry, budgeting, shopping, bill paying, time management, social calendering etc.
Mom won't be there to be sure you are awake and to class on time. Making your meals, stocking the fridge, gassing up your car etc.
You'll be doing it all yourself. There's a lot to consider.
And...staying at moms is probably a great way to save your money for now. If you move out, you'll more than likely spend so much more money on entertainment and junk, just because you are free to do so, friends can be so enticing!
2006-10-17 03:37:16
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answered by 7aliens 3
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I moved out when I was 18 and I loved it. Of course I'm in a little debt now from partying way too hard, but I think it was fun time and a learning experience. If you stay home you WILL save a ton of money though. Just a thought.
2006-10-17 03:32:52
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answered by Anonymous
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2016-10-02 09:31:16
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answered by ? 4
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Do the math first. Figure out how much money in food and consumables you use in a week and then factor in rent, utilities, disposable income required. Compare that versus your income and then do some soul searching. If you want to establish a savings staying at home is the way to go.
2006-10-17 03:35:05
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answered by Anonymous
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i moved out at 19 and i to was in college. i dont get along with my mom very much, and thats the best choice i have ever made. i have been out for a year and couldnt be happier. i have my own reasons for leaving, but my life is so much eaiser..less stressful!! i love my roomates and we were blessed to get a house, so im doin pretty good. just look at your options, can you survive on your own? do you rely on your parents for alot also? think hard about it. i did and i am so much happier!! i feel more independent! I LOVE IT! :) Good Luck!
2006-10-17 03:32:55
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answered by gracin_angel 3
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I think it would be fine if you can manage moving out..I mean with the expense...etc. But, if I were you I would stay...if they are willing to let you live there (rent free / reduced rent) then go for it. If it's more freedom you are looking for, then simply sit them down and talk about it. It will show her that you are making grown up decisions and not just lashing out cause you want a later curfew
2006-10-17 03:32:33
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answered by Anonymous
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Well, you will face alot alot alot of new responsibilities.. who will pay for your new place? Will it be a good place to stay while you are going to school? - - - who will cook and clean etc.. - Well, only you know all the details - make a pros and cons list and see what you think.. I think the fact that you are asking that question of total strangers w/o giving any real details means that you are probably not ready to do this - - so, I say hang in there..
2006-10-17 03:35:17
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answered by Anonymous
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It all depends on what your relationship with your mother is like. Make a list of the pros and the cons of living with her. If you have way more pros, I'd stick around, and instead of wasting money, you could save the money you'd be spending on rent and put it away in a savings account...that way after a few years you could put a nice down payment on a condo or something and end up investing. But like I said, it all depends on your relationship with her. If it's really bad, I'd suggest finding someone to share an apartment with. :)
2006-10-17 03:40:37
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answered by ? 2
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Before you do anything look into every aspect of moving out- especially financially. Moving out is expensive and a lot of young people forget the "hidden expenses". You should talk to people that are objective yet have your best interest at heart.
2006-10-17 03:36:40
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answered by bree_1384 2
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