2006-10-17 03:00:20 · 22 answers · asked by CURIOUS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, I cant count how many times I cheated on my first husband.
Do I have an excuse absolutelynot. Do I feel that I need to justify my behavior with one, No I dont.
I did what I did for my own reasons, in which I understand those reasons now, but do not care to elaborate. But what I do know is that cheating is the search of something with another, that you lack in yourself, or do not have in your current relationship, and are in denial about it. Either beacause your too scared to admit it, or your not ready to know. But believe me when I say to all of those people who have been cheated on it is not just a painful experience for you, but it is as well for the cheater. The cheater has to deal with the emotional baggage of Karma, until they recognize something in themselves, and it can be extremeley painful to do that. Also just by the act of cheating can carry a great measure of guilt that does not allow you to take the first step of awareness that you need to find happiness. People who cheat are not happy with themselves, and are running away from it. but what karma does that no one else can do is make you responsible for the pain you have done to others, by initiating your own painful process. Now because of the painful process I went through, I have now found a love that is completley truthful. I have now found a love, that by loving him means to love myself. I do not feel a lack of, because I am completley honest with myself, and in being so, I can be just as truthful with him. We can only be as truthful with others as we are to ourselves. I know I would never cheat on him, because from that truth and the acceptance of all my flaws, I can now respect myself enough to not run, or to look for something outside, when everything I need is within. My husband once said to me I love you because by loving you I love myself. I told him I completely understand. He does not judge me for my cheating in the past, nor does he think I would do the same to him, because he knows I love myself too much to do that.
I hope you understand what I am saying, and I wish you well
2006-10-17 03:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by fryedaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on my first husband, he was emotionally abusive, and i was so tired of feeling wrong , stupid, and undesirable that I found some one who told me I was great and made me feel the love I was not getting from my husband. I am not saying what I did was right, I should have left him before starting with someone else, but I did what I had to do. That is the only time I ever cheated on anyone boyfriend or spouse. I am not a cheater by nature, I just needed something I was not getting at home (the love not the sex)
2006-10-17 03:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stay In Texas And The TAKS attempt Are like the 12 months end exams And cheating Is an computerized 0 Plus You Fail For the completed 12 months meaning you could desire to repeat That Grade!!! And confident I Took the possibility final 12 months Cuz My buddy mandatory some solutions and that i Gave some To Him!! Didnt Get caught the two! I in no way Cheated Tho Cuz Im To stable For That...3.8 GPA
2016-10-19 21:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating in a relationship or a marriage is just WRONG. No, I would never cheat. That is so dishonest. I do not know how a person can cheat and then wonder why they can not be trusted. A relationship and marriage should have, honesty and trust as the foundation. If that is not there, then it will never last.
2006-10-17 03:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i cheat on my first husband with my second husband because my ex was abusive and i needed love and support and i found it in another man,However b/c we had children i was sorry for it later but I still did it and i ended up marrying the man i cheated with b/c i love him so much would i cheat again.No i would walk away first I saw the devistation that it caused.I would have been better walking away first and then doing my own thing.You live and learn.I think a big factor in my cheating was that I wanted to be desirable to someone.My ex never would have sex with me or when he did I wasnt satisfied.For me the cheating was emotional..
2006-10-17 04:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by plumcouch30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated playing strip darts yesterday.
I was tired of losing.
I feel better now that I admitted it.
I have cheated on my guy in the past. Probably about 10 years ago. If you keep me happy I won't cheat. My new man keeps me happy. I ain't going anywhere!
2006-10-17 03:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by danadeville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i have never cheated on my husband, I think he cheated on me and considered to do it just to get even, but two wrongs dont make a right.
2006-10-17 03:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya I have cheated really the reason is boredom... the whole monogamy thing apparently doesnt work for me too much... its like im trapped and i get bored - plus i get off on the whole getting caught thing... that being said I have never stood up under God and vowed that i will never be with another man - so whatev... now my man lets me play with others - its working much better now - lol
2006-10-17 04:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by ice_princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never cheated - always knew that cheating is wrong and I know I love my husband.
2006-10-17 03:17:43 · answer #9 · answered by Please use other door 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey:
Well I donot know I really really have but I have a boyfriend and we never met only phone love! I think its cheating but I only do that coz my man keeps cheating on me and denying it! So it gives me a kind of pleasure to hurt him n cheat him behind his back! Its all about revenge! Sweet sweet!
Love SANAM
2006-10-17 03:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋