I hardly see my two best friends anymore. We used to always be out chasing the girls. Now one has a girlfriend and works offshore for 2 weeks at a time. The other one works offshore 2 weeks at a time also and is always doing other things when he is in. I have a great girlfriend and a great job. Should I do something or nothing at all, any suggestions?
2006-10-17 02:59:23 · 14 answers · asked by bsantezee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes you have grown apart and its ok....life brings about changes...nothing to do but change with it...
2006-10-17 03:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it they who are not contacting you? Are you always contacting them? Drifting off in different directions as you grow up is inevitable and sometimes painful. Try to stay open to making new friendships, and at least try to maintain the old ones. I still write high school friends even though I haven't seen them for over 30 years and will probably not see them again this side of the door.
BTW, I used to work offshore and the time off is precious you have to set priorities when you are back.
2006-10-17 03:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some friends are only for a season. Others remain friends for life even if you seldom get to see them. Your lives have taken different turns now; you're all maturing and have significant others and demanding jobs. You might try to find a time when all of you could get together for an evening (without the girl chasing).
2006-10-17 03:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gaaaah; another all of us is likewise thinking approximately leaving. i understand there all asserting that this team hos gotten too massive, and that its getting loopy. yet think of roughly it. we are the only followers on Y/A that have easily gotten a team up the place we are in a position to ask and answer questions approximately Tokio inn and only be talked approximately as relatives. how many human beings can we see doing that? None. and advantageous, its getting loopy yet their are maximum of followers on Y/A so needless to say it is going to start to sense like that or get like that. I reckon we could desire to continually only kinda ask.. respected stuff with regard to the band. Like; -What does this advise? -How plenty is the Schrei DVD and the place am i able to get it -The album call is Humanoid.. Stuff it somewhat is already out , and offical . That way, there are much less questions and much less; could you fairly's? Im unhappy. I dont want Monika too depart. *Siggggggh* She's continually welcome to stay although, and answer extra questions. <3
2016-12-08 16:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by money 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For now just take things as they are and enjoy what life offers if only to have a share of stories to tell when you do get together again. Your bestfriends and you will have time to catch up for sure.
2006-10-17 03:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mary Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody is now "to your tents o Isreal". You are all hooked up with girls, I wonder why you are eager to keep meeting, or don't you like your girlfriend?
It seems the main reason for the friendship was to "chase the girls" They both seem happy with what they've found.
2006-10-17 03:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by bibi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe should try to make a date to have dinner with all of you including the girl friends. See if they are willing if not then move on.
2006-10-17 03:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya havent grown apart ya just grown up.maybe you sholud get a glimpse of hangin out alone you might enjoy some "you time".its nice to hang out alone.quiet doing your own thing.doin stuff you never did yet.
2006-10-17 03:15:22 · answer #8 · answered by Vi_PrInCeSs305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i hate to say this but this is life...u were all together when u had nothin to do...no work no responsibilties...no eachone of u has his own things to keep him busy...
but still there are things u can do..u can still hang out...sometimes u might get ur gfs along...but notice it wont be like the old days....again...this is life!!
call them dont let them go !!
2006-10-17 03:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by Blueberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your buddies back call them up and find a time to go out together.
2006-10-17 03:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by lynx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ever let your friends go. They are friends for life, they might also be thinking the same thoughts as you.
2006-10-17 03:08:10 · answer #11 · answered by notalucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋