2006-10-17 02:48:27 · 16 answers · asked by anxiousgirl888 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you know like The Stepford's Wives, or the husband will just say, honey i'm home!
2006-10-17 02:50:28 · update #1
let me make it clear, i'm not on the look out, just asking.
2006-10-17 02:54:36 · update #2
Ok, I have to defend the HOMEMAKERS!!. There is nothing wrong with someone being a homemaker and taking care of the children while they are young and the household. Usually the woman has a career before children they can go back too. It is a choice. It is just most men don't make ENOUGH MONEY, for the woman to stay home and have a certain lifestyle. Booohooo to those men who think negative towards homemakers, we are hot!!!
2006-10-17 03:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there are some guys that would love their wife to be a homemaker. I was a homemaker and loved it, I have a 3 year old 2 year old and a 6month old and one on the way, I decided to go back to work because my soon to be x husband started acting a little cocky, like just because he works he can treat me any kind've way. But what man wouldn't enjoy a clean home food on the table clothes folded, or ironed and put away and a beautiful women waiting in a cute little nighty.
I guess it depends on the man. I would love to be a homemaker again with pride.
2006-10-17 10:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by J. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ter are still guys out ther who only want a "homemaker" unfortunately the economy the way it is makes that prospect almost impossible unless he is capeable of bringing home not only the bacon but the entire pig (as in wages). People can't live on what one spouse alone makes these days and it has nothing to do with affording the "extras" in life. Believe it or not there are many women in the workforce who would love to be able to stay at home and be "Suzie Homemaker" But if they did they wouldn't have money to put that bacon on the table.
2006-10-17 09:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i cant speak for every man, but my husband likes the idea that I don't work FULLTIME. It allows me flexibility for my kids schedules and makes me more available to them. My husband and I have talked about this and we are both in agreement that until the kids are old enough to stay at home alone for a couple hours after school, it is best that i do not work fulltime. So, in about 2 more years, I will be pursuing a full time job.
2006-10-17 10:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife stayed home for years - she has a master's degree but chose to stay home. Believe me, there was nothing stepford about it! We have four kids and it is more than a full time job to keep the house in order and love the kids. We all help as much as we can.
It has been a struggle financially, but for us it was worth it. Yeah, I think I prefer it if that's what she wants to do.
2006-10-17 09:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by toaster4 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My fiance is the stay at home dad... however it is very difficult having anyone stay home with children.... financially hard. However for those who don't know keeping up the home, taking care of children etc is a FULL time job already. Now I do wish that I could be the one to stay home however that is not possible right now.... and in my opinion we will always have 1 of us staying home as I do not care for daycare raising and instilling values into my children.
2006-10-17 10:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not my husband - he likes the idea of both of us working because it just brings home more money; and I have to agree with that! Plus, it's only fair. Why should one person, who is just as much capable of working as their partner, sit at home all day? The only way he would allow me to stop working is if we had kids - but I don't want any so work, work, work, that is what we do!
2006-10-17 10:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm looking for a woman who can take care of me in the style to which I've become accustom!
2006-10-17 10:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever my wife would want would be fine with me. If she wants to stay home, great. If she wants to have a career, great. What makes her happy makes me happy.
2006-10-17 09:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by daj11551 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not me. A "homemaker" wife to me is someone who is content without change. Wouldn't life become boring...redundant...routine, for her? I wouldn't want to be married to someone like that.
2006-10-17 09:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋