hi i am 15 yrs old. my uncle has come from dubai and he is 23 yrs old. when he was in india we used to fight like cat and mouse but now i feel that i couldnt not be without him.i dont know whether it is love or just infacuation. ples help me in this.
2006-10-17 02:26:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
but althese days i didnt miss him.only wen he came to india after 2 and a half years i miss him.
2006-10-17 04:32:47 · update #1
it is like we indian normally marry ur moms bro or ur aunts son.
2006-10-17 04:36:25 · update #2
You are just missing him as a companion or lets say play mate. Its not love or infacuation.
2006-10-17 02:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by switch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At age 15, you are much too young to making a decision about the rest of your life! Your cultural background may be "hinting" that you should be infatuated with your uncle, but try to put that on hold. In THIS country, it would be illegal, a) because he's your uncle and b) you're underage!
Why don't you try thinking what college you want to go to or just hang with your same-age friends? yes, you can still be happy he's back, but recognize your attraction as just due to hormones and the fact that you already liked him. I'd keep it the way it was before. You don't want him landing in jail, do you?
2006-10-17 07:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sort of jail bate and grose at the same time! He is 23 and you are 15, that's an automatic life term almost! Another thing, we are not in yalls country, we are in the U.S. We don't like imbred people, no offense, but that's your own blood. Why do you want to do that? That's grose!
2006-10-17 07:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by hot_chick4eva20032002@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that you quote on quote love him. I think that you have just found that you to have found a connection between you. The same thing happend wit me and a girl but im popular and shes not and we tried the whole going out thing and it ended with disaster. We both hate each other
2006-10-17 08:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you guys were having alot of funs; so now u are missing the fun and him. It'll be alright after a days or weeks I think.
2006-10-17 03:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by tranqa8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you may be missing some key point in a relationship with your father maybe??? don't think you have anything to worry about. maybe someday that is what you will look for in a serious relationship with a man and he's setting the pace
2006-10-17 02:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by mom3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are u really 15.
2006-10-17 02:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. First, it's against the law (rape, incest), and second, what would it do to your family?
You are 15, your hormones are crazy. Find someone your own age to lust over.
2006-10-17 02:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by SheDontKnow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what this is your uncle one that is gross... 2 your fifteen go see your doctor get some help.
2006-10-17 02:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by jessica H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not love or infatuation, unless it's love like u love ur parents.
2006-10-17 03:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋