Guys I need your help please....what do you think?

Question

I've been out with this guy, I know his "hang outs", he seems interested, maybe playing games a little bit, he lets me know when and where he's going but hasn't invited me a 2nd time, so tonight I plan on going to the bar I know he's going to be at with a couple of my friends, am I going to look like a pathetic loser, or will it make him see I'm really interested? Help please, I really like this guy and I think he likes me too, I just don't understand the head games

Answer 1

I think it's a good idea to show up with your friends. That's probably why he keeps telling you where he's at. He wants to see if your interested enough to come by. I would try to see near his table but not too close. I would laugh and talk loudly with my friends until he looks over at your table. When he notices you, smile and then wink at him (if you dare). If not, just smile at him. Continue to have a good time with your friends. He will either come by your table and say hi, or walk by his table and sit for a minute just to say hi to him. It seems pretty obvious that you two like each other. The next time you talk to him or get him alone, I would confront him and ask what's up....literally. Ask him why is he playing mind games. If he's acting like he doesn't know what you mean, break it down to him the same way you broke it down to us. If you want any true answers, take matters into your own hands and confront him.

Answer 2

You do understand "Head games" I read your other question, you are a Married woman and playing the worst "Head game" on yourself and your husband.

You are married, act like it, married don't hang out at bars trying to lure some kid into a romp in the sack. At least ones with self respect don't.

When we age, we are supposed to gain wisdom, next time you go to a bar, look at the 60 year old women hanging out in there smoking and drinking themselves to death, do you want to end up like them, or enjoy a long life with your husband, kids, grand kids with security and Love?

That is literally the choice you have. That young guy might take you out, he may even sleep with you, he will tell his friends about the "Older lady that is a freak in the sack" but won't marry you.

Then get ready for every young guy that can't get a date to hit on expecting you to preform for them.

Get a grip, while there is still time!

Sorry for being so harsh! Normally men are the ones doing this same thing.

Peace!

Answer 3

Games only get you so far which means it works only if you play the game.

If you play the game then go to the bar and ask him out. He wants sex.

If you don't want to play the game then meet a new guy and see what happen.

Answer 4

go to the bar, but don't go with the intentions of stalking him, be yourself, don't even pay him any attention, let him come to you and talk, other than that, enjoy yourself. If you keep chasing him he'll never be interested in you. Play the cat and mouse game, your the mouse at this point make yourself known, but don't gay lay in his bowl waiting for him to devour you.

If other guys come and talk to you at the bar don't brush them off, flirt with them, he'll really want you to be his girl when he see how many other guys are interested in you.

Answer 5

Stop worrying about looking like a looser. When I guy askes you out and you refuse, he can feel like a looser too. Its a tough world with little to lose. Just ask him out, you have nothing to lose.

Answer 6

go to a bar,talk to other guys where he can see you,pretend he isn't there

Answer 7

You're married, go home to your husband and stop cheating.

Answer 8

Best way is to ask him that way you'll know

Answer 9

so very desperate and clingy..stalk someone different

Answer 10

GO HOME TO YOUR HUSBAND YOU WHORE