is cheating on her.........!!!!!will you tell her ?????/the problem is both are my friends and I dont know what to do....shoul I keep my mouth close.???
2006-10-17 02:17:57 · 11 answers · asked by haki 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tough situation. Tell the boyfriend that you are aware of his cheating and he needs to stop for the good of the girlfriend. Don't make any threats, but let him know that cheaters always get found out..... Good luck...
2006-10-17 02:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
on one hand you feel like you should tell her but believe me no good will come of that. People say they want to know if they are being cheated on but really they don't. It would put you in a bad place if you were to tell and more than likely you will lose two friends.
2006-10-17 02:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by daydreambeliever0000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't betray any of the friendships and take the sideline on it the truth always comes out but if i were you i would let the guy know you know and be like she the girlfriend doesn't deserve that and tell him if you don't want to be with her just let her know and if you do stop playing games
2006-10-17 02:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by israel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just went through that. i took a long time hoping someone else would tell her or she would just find out. finally i couldn't take it anymore and i told her. she got mad at me for a while (as your friend probably will) but she got over it. i think she was glad to be told once she calmed down.
2006-10-17 02:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way one of them will be mad at you. Him for telling or her for not telling. You might have to pick which one you want to be friends with most and hope that the other one will understand. i would tell my female friend becase I would want someone to tell me.
2006-10-17 02:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by chr1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what a horrible situation to be in. you'll be wrong whatever you decide....where do your loyalties mostly lie? if you can't work that out maybe it's best to say nothing or you could end up losing 2 friends.
2006-10-17 02:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by diane c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to him, tell him as a friend you know what he's doing and that he should be honest with his girlfriend and that if he doesn't be honest, you will because she too is your friend.
it's a no win situation, you could lose one or both friends, but if you do, were they really your friends?
2006-10-17 02:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by joe's wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her - you would want to know if you were in her position.
2006-10-17 02:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by Please use other door 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her
2006-10-17 02:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by ohlala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it!
2006-10-17 02:29:19 · answer #10 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋