As a man whats the right age to marry ? I read a Steve Jobs speech where he said 32 is the right age to marry . He says thats when you really know who you are ...
I believe 30+ is the right age to marry , when did you marry or when are planning to marry ?
PS :I am pissed off with people who marry at 25-27 or earlier , not because they are married but the pressure on me to get married by that age :-)
Cheers
2006-10-17 01:48:26 · 13 answers · asked by WaterGuy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ALSO DO TYOU THINK ONE SHUD MARRY ? HOW MANY VOTE TO MARRIAGE AND HOW MANY LIKE BEING BACHELORs ?
2006-10-17 01:50:31 · update #1
I Vote MARRIAGE! Its awesome!!! I just got married this last July, I met the right guy and we are still newly weds at heart. The relationship you can share as a married couple only comes by being married. Yes, you can live together for years, but to really become connected at heart, Marriage is the key. Every woman wants a man, that is committed to her. Anyone can have someone then dump them like that. To be married shows a Deep love and devotion, one that is so strong, nothing can break it! To stay a bachlor, means you may never have a woman who will stay with you, you will constantly be looking for another. Of course, its fun feeling free, but life is so much sweeter when you are sharing your life with that special someone. You will have another shoulder to lean on, support, and open arms whenever you need it. You may have tiffs and fights, but who doesnt? The best part is the making up , Its fun! (wink)
What age do I think is appropriat for marriage?? Well thats up to you. Im 20, but I dont want to be one of the young ones that makes you feel pressured. You know in your heart, when you find that perfect girl. I dated my husband for 4 1/2 years before we ever thought of marriage. We built a realationship, that wanted to go further. And we took that marriage step, and wouldnt be single again for the World! I wish you the best on whatever you decide to do. (Big Smile)
2006-10-17 02:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by Such A Chicka 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was married at 21, and my husband was 25. I believe you should get married whenever you know you have found the correct person. We had dated for 3 years and didn't want to wait any longer! I'm also more mature than most, so I felt I was ready. That was two years ago, and we are happier than ever!
2006-10-17 09:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by Caroline V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have to agree with Steve Jobs. 30+ is the way to go.
And IF you do want to get married, make sure that you've accomplished your goals FIRST and are financially stable. If not you're screwed. Women are 'dream killers'. All of the goals you wish to accomplish will now be dust in the wind. Also get a pre-nup. Paul McCartney didn't because he thought it was 'un-romantic'. And now look where he is. His wife is trying to clean him out. Don't be a fool, protect your assets.
One last thing, if you decide to have any children... have a DNA test done the moment he/she pops out. If not you'll be paying vaginamoney for the next "EIGHTEEN YEARS." You wouldn't believe the amount of men raising someone else's little bastard, and NO vagina on the planet is worth paying 18 yrs for.
2006-10-17 09:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by Larry F 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You marry when you're ready for that kind of commitment. Make sure you have a great career and an education because it cost money to get married and be married. Make sure the person you're willing to commit your life to is the person you truly love. Age is somewhat a big factor in marriage, but not as big as "LOVE"
2006-10-17 09:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by sportsgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There right age is when you've met the right person and have the emotional stability and financial resources to be married. That age can be different for different people, depending on their maturity, where they are in life and the financial position. It could be 21 it could be 45.
2006-10-17 08:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by lennox525 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as its legal.. I personally don't think there's a "right" age to get married. It depends on ones priorities and if the individual is ready for it. Marriage is a big step.. there should be no rush for it.
2006-10-17 09:52:06 · answer #6 · answered by steph84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
27-30 are the right aqges to marry
2006-10-17 08:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by Nikkia L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you 100%! We will never know everything we need to know about life, or ourselves, however, around 30 we have enough experience in life to recognize what we want and need. I think most women change from 25-30 and get a reality check at 30ish... I think men take a little longer and it's generally after 30 when they get their epiphany. :) Best of luck to you!!!
2006-10-17 08:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by favrd1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20s is too young... from my experience
that's the time to enjoy being single and finding out what you want and what would make you happy... i think it's really sweet when 40s and up get married, but if you want kids, obviously you get married a little earlier
2006-10-17 09:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you feel that you have the right person, you will know if you want to marry, just be 100% sure, so that you won't break someone's heart!!
2006-10-17 08:55:20 · answer #10 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋