My husband is a good man. Why do I feel this waY?
2006-10-17 00:55:57 · 44 answers · asked by Jane L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are happy with your husband stay away from the jerk. Do something fun with your husband instead.
2006-10-17 01:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by IC 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we become attracted to someone else because of the "bad boy" persona they're putting out there. "Getting together with ...this handsome jerk" will only lead you down a road of major trouble and heartache. Don't do it. If your husband is as good a man as you say, concentrate your energies there instead and forget the "handsome jerk" You're calling him a jerk for some reason, figure out what it is and stay away from him.
2006-10-17 01:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being Attracted Is One Thing. Doesn't Mean You Have To Act On It.
If Your Man Is A Good Man As You Say.....Don't Trade A Sure Thing For The Unknown.
You Just Might End Up By Yourself, If You Act On This.
Remember What Goes Around, Comes Around!!
2006-10-17 01:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by XXSEXY66XX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello :) Why do you feel this way? There could be many answers to that question...but the largest possibility is that your bored, or looking for something to break you of the routine that you are in. Alot of us like to blame the other person, for how we feel, but the truth is that it is all in our hands. People are receptive, if you make a change and make the effort, it will be noticed. Voice your opinions, talk about how u feel with your husband...and most importantly, tune into the honesty and confidence you have in yourself. No matter what you have to say, as long as you are honest and confident in your honesty, your partner will respond. Everyone appreciates an honest remark, doesn't matter if it's good or bad.
I'm not saying that you should tell your husband that your attracted to another man, but try and figure out the reason your feeling distant from him, and attracted to another man.
Of course its normal to be attracted to other men, your only human...so don't feel bad about it...
2006-10-17 01:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by curls23 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am not here to judge you and your feelings.
I just think it´s missing an honest talk with your husband to know what is going wrong because if you´re thinkin´ this way is because you´re uncomfortable with some issue in your marriage.
You both should try to lit up the fire again, instead of looking for it outside the house.
I dont wanna seem like you mother, lol, but I´ve been there already, I cheated once and you know, it can be good at that moment, but when it is over, the empty is still there, so if you dont fulfill yourself with good feelings for your husband, u´ll be cheating him forever and will be unhappier every time.
2006-10-17 01:03:05 · answer #5 · answered by Lucianna_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the handsome guy know you're married? Whenever you're with him, talk about your marriage, husband, etc. Too, stay away as much as possible (if that is possible). Being attracted to people when you're married is soooo normal and common.
Hang in there and TRY not to consumate anything with this guy, it'll really make your life miserable even if your husband never finds out as you'll be constantly thinking about the other guy, desiring him, lusting after him, etc etc. Not worth it (for YOUR own health).
2006-10-17 01:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because this is a test....take it from someone with experience, your husband very well may be a good man, but somewhere in your mind you aren't statisfied. You need to ask your self why you are not content with what you have. Be honest with your self. Is is a physcial attraction? Money? Does this other guy give you affection (like your husband use to?) Don't hurt your husband. If you are going to cheat, leave him before you do.
2006-10-17 01:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. It doesn't work. You are feeling very insecure. You probably feel that you need a little more excitement in your marriage and can't get it so you want to get it elsewhere. Try it and you'll get all the excitement you will ever want. Husbands don't take to cheating very well and this guy is a jerk you said, he could also be dangerous.
2006-10-17 01:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave the handsome jerk alone. If your only description of him has the word JERK in it, that should tell you enough right there. Besides, if you have a good man, why would you even look at a jerk? That's insane.
2006-10-17 01:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you husband is good why are you flirting?..... maybe deep down you don't love him...and this "other man" is a factitious fantasy of something your lacking with your husband....the other man wont full fill the desire it will only create guilt and shame..... why don't you go to a lingere shop get yourself a hot sexy negligee send the kids out ( if you have any) soft music ...wine and try to revive a good marriage that could potentially have the best sex you have ever had!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-17 01:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋