2006-10-17 00:44:33 · 24 answers · asked by Jane L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because marriage only changes your LIFESTYLE (if even that), and not who you are. People keep sayin marriage changes everything n stuff, only your damn lifestyle. But are you still gonna find other men attractive...like eveyrone else said DUH....there's no magical honeymoon that suddenly showers you with marriage dust and you become a WIFE, or the signing of the paper suddenly certifies you as no longer the person you are, but now the....MARRIED HUSBAND! Marriage is just a confirmation that the other person you are with is the one you wanna be with til death do you part, and unfortunately now, it's until divorce...SO, with that said, just cause you're married you're not a different person....only way that changes is if YOU let it, or YOU make that decision...otherwise your natural human instincts will NEVER change....
2006-10-17 01:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you're married, doesn't mean that suddenly you've been struck blind. It's a healthy thing to be attracted to another man, shows that you're still a vital woman sexually. What you do about the attraction is another matter. As long as you're not following through on the attraction, don't worry about it.
2006-10-17 07:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are marry that don't mean that you a are dead woman it OK to be attracted to another man but you should not react upon those attracted . I have a question for you is your husband very good looking if he is when you see an good looking man try to think about your husband.And remember that you took you vow before god.
2006-10-17 07:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by thummper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How attracted are you? It's one thing to appreciate handsome "eye candy" and another to want to do something about getting together. If it is the latter, be honest with yourself if your not happy being married to your husband.
Good Luck,
O'hock
2006-10-17 07:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by orcahock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For evaluating "handsome", you must count qualities of man and not the outer look. There is still some tint of love not fed by you from your husband. You must enjoy with your husband and evaluation and develop handsome qualities in him, you would a very happier lady in the world.
2006-10-17 08:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by pretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural. Even most of the guys also get attracted to beautiful women even they are married.
2006-10-17 07:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by A R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to have an attraction to the opposite sex even if you are married. However, acting on it is another story.
2006-10-17 08:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by alandicho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your normal hun! Everyone goes through this. Your married not blind - LOL - Even thou your married your eyes and brain still work, people see an attractive person and it registers to the brain, and you think WOW they are so attractive!!! No worries baby!!
2006-10-17 07:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are human and they are handsome!...=o)
Well, being married does not mean that you stop feeling things. But yes....you do stop acting on those feelings.
Its 'eye-candy' after marraige! .... good to see only!!
I was in a similar situation for about a year....i suffered a lot within myself thinking all sorts of stupid things and blaming myself and purposely pushing that person away from me etc etc etc.
My husband explained to me that i was over reacting because its normal to feel things. =o)
I worked very hard to get over those feelings because my husband means a lot to me....and i eventually did it.
Its okay to be that way...but hold yourself back when you get tempted to DO something! ..... eventually the feeling will go away too.
2006-10-17 07:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by megh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its quite simple...that is what we called opposite attraction. Afterall for me it is not wrong if you attractted to handsome guy, many housewifes also act the same. But what is more important is that you stay faithfull to your husband....
2006-10-17 07:54:29 · answer #10 · answered by eliz_blu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋