I am a 38 year old woman, I have 3 kids, and it takes alot to get me angry or even pissed off... However when I do get mad, and want to have a disscussion I get laughed at... I don't care who it is... my boss, parents, kids, co-workers.... They laugh at me... I want to know how I can make people to take me seriously when I am angry.
My kids aren't meaning to be dissrespectful. And usually I will burst out laughing when I see them laughing at me...
My nick name is Chiuaua...
2006-10-16 18:31:19 · 13 answers · asked by next.... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i don't see anything wrong with your situation, in fact i like the fact the situation that your children laughs at you when you get mad and THEN YOU LAUGH WITH THEM AS A RESULT, i think is good, but if you really, really wants them to take you seriously all you have to do is put up a stern face and with a very, very serious face just tell them "I'M REALLY SERIOUS AND I'M REALLY VERY ANGRY AND PLEASE, PLEASE I WANT TO DISCUSS THE SITUATION SERIOUSLY. And please can you change your name to something serious(its really funny, i hope you don't look like one, just joking!)
2006-10-16 18:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with a nickname like that perhaps its part of the reason that people get to laughing, are you small in stature too? could be that when you get angry you remind them of a Chiuaua...maybe it is the facial expressions or the way you talk when angry, does your voice rise, you talk fast?
Just a word to the wise, people never take the words of someone showing anger as something they are to take seriously, words spoken in anger usually hold no real substance or thought they are generated through frustration not reason.
You want someone to take you seriously, sit them down and explain your reasoning to them, they are more apt to take that seriously because they realize you put a lot of thought into what you are trying to put across.
2006-10-16 18:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They just don't take you seriously, which should be more of an insult than something that you should also laugh at
I use to laugh at my mother when she got angry and let's just say I knew not to do it again, and if she ever laughed it was very rare
B/c you said that almost everyone you know laughs at you maybe you should evaluate your personality, perhaps they do not see you as a person to be taken seriously if anything they more than likely view you as a passive person, which can symbolize weakness
Start being more aggressive and firm when needed and they won't be laughing anymore
Hope this helps!!!!!
2006-10-16 18:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Breann 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the situation, laughing is ok.However, you're going to be in situations that you are dead serious and want to be taken the way. Don't let people knock you from a serious tone when mad just because they're laughing. You said it takes alot to get you mad, so you you obviously have a good reason to be mad. Stick to your reasons and try not to laugh back and tell people that you're not joking around, that you're serious.
2006-10-17 01:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by Phil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A funny one and I give you a star. Here is a funny(!!) ghosts chat. Two ghosts met and both chat about how they died. 1st ghost : How u died? 2nd ghost : I died of cold. 1st ghost : How does it feel when you're dying in cold? 2nd ghost : Actually, I was accidentally locked in the refrigerator. Initially, I was shivering, then my whole body started to freeze, later I felt the whole world was dark and I died suffocating. 1st ghost : Wow what a horrible way to die.... 2nd ghost : How about you? How u die? 1st ghost : I died from heart attack. 2nd ghost : I see, why did u have a heart attack? 1st ghost : Actually, I found out that my wife is having an affair with another man. One day, when I came back from work, saw a pair of man shoes outside my house. Then, I realized that the guy was in my house with my wife. When I rushed into the bedroom, my wife was alone. I must find where that bastard is hiding. So I searched the toilet, I ran downstairs, looked in the storeroom, but the bastard was not there. So, I ran upstairs and searched the wardrobe, but I found nothing. Because of all that running,I got a heart attack and died. 2nd ghost : Why you never look for the bastard in the fridge? The bastard was hiding there. We both might be alive now!!
2016-03-28 12:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents, maybe they can tell you what we can't see or maybe you should look in the mirror when you get angry to find out the reason - why they laugh at you.
2006-10-16 18:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People laugh at me when Im mad, they say its because Im cute. I am a cute woman, makes being taken seriously difficult.
2006-10-16 18:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by Juniper C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-16 18:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The next time they do it {ur parents,ur boss,ur co workers} ask them to take you seriously...!! ASK FOR IT ..
Well and with your kids you seem to be happy , so thats good !
All the best
2006-10-16 18:42:32 · answer #9 · answered by Beautiful Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like they laugh at you when your abgry to make you happy like you said when they laugh you can't help but to laugh back maybe its there way of making you happy i do it to my mom when she gets mad i make her laugh and its all over with like that she feels so much better after that.
2006-10-16 18:38:33 · answer #10 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋