2006-10-16 18:24:27 · 18 answers · asked by far h 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
sex is not a game to play it's divine also please don't have this sort of relationships with all the girls be sure your body is a temple of god so keep it clean and enjoy with your lifepartner since you guys expect your lifepartner to be clean you also try to be the same
2006-10-16 18:37:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so get serious and do not play house for the hubby gets to go to work and mom stays home with children and sometimes also has a job too. you also have to pay taxes and pay bills and sweat all the big and small stuff. just take it easy there is always time for this later. enjoy life and just be a student for now. growing up is hard in more ways than one! and babies do come if there is sex, for you can never be sure if the other is safe, for condoms break and pills are forgotten. and aids kills!
2006-10-17 01:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by imawatchman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never knew 'getting serious' meant having sex. Between the two of you, I think its your gf who is really serious and is concerned about an unwanted pre-marital pregnancy, while you appear to be more interested in your own pleasure only. Even use of contraceptives carries a marginal risk of failure leading to pregnancy. What would you do if she gets pregnant? Wash your hands off and find another girl to get serious with? Getting serious should ideally mean taking your relationship seriously. You should share her concerns, her fears and be someone whom she can trust. If she doesn't want it, why are you so insistent? Why don't you marry her before getting serious your way? Don't just think of your own lust and be selfish.
2006-10-19 14:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun,do not force her.There are other ways to show your committment to her without having sexual intercourse.She is worried because she is not ready to engage in those types of activities.It does not mean she does dont care for you,it simply means she isnt ready.Every person,male or female,is ready at different times in their lives.Just wait,and when you both are ready it will be way better.I am always going to add a little bit of advice,and i know this is probably the last thing you wanted to here.You are in the adolescent catagory.I am assuming you are quite young.Enjoy those years,because once they are gone they do not come back.Save those adult activities for when your actually an adult.It does not mean you care for her less.Always remember that,anytime you have intercourse,protection or not there is a chance of pregnancy or a possible std.Protection lowers the chance you have,but does not eliminate it.The only full proof way of protecting yourself is not having sex at all.Good luck and dont rush her,and i encourage you to wait until you are an adult before you engage in this type of activity.
2006-10-17 07:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by ~♡~Moon Goddess~♡~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,wai till u marry ur g.f .after ur marriage she won"t be afraid to get pregnant
2006-10-18 01:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by kutti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She if she will get put on birth control and use condoms. Otherwise wait until you are older, because sex is a very serious responsibility to have.
2006-10-17 01:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well she has a reason to be. being serious doesnt have to involve sex. and if shes scared, let her take her time and she will be ready sometime. but there are always pills and use condoms
2006-10-17 01:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by Alicia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude,
Gals are always sensitive and sometimes wat we don't take into consideration ,they do???
But i think ur gf is right,wat if something wrong happens,afterall u cant hope that everything goes on well.
Even if u have safe sex,then also there are 3-4% chances of gal getting prgnt.
2006-10-17 01:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by nalla 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is a couple of things that you can do about that. Use protection, have her get on birth control, use both of them, or don't have sex with her until she stops worrying. < Kim
2006-10-17 14:53:56 · answer #9 · answered by hot_chick4eva20032002@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take precautions and enjoy the life as long as both are willing.
2006-10-17 01:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋