I'm 24, physically fit. I work full time and go to college at nights. And on the weekend and hang out and meet women, I try to stay very social...but lately.
I seem to have a better time with the woman in her 30's or even 40’s? for some reason in the back of my head, I keep thinking that they would not be attracted to me if they found out my age or if they were to find out my age, I’ll just be a name on a list for them to show there friends, is this true???? I think I need some clarity?...or any help would do?
Or should I be ok with females thinking that I’m a fling, or a name on the list…I mean, I’m still young?
2006-10-16 17:48:58 · 20 answers · asked by vagray1 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
at your age it is normal to be attracted to experience. I understand what you mean....I am 50 and look like I am in my 40's. I like the staying power of a younger man....its all good if you take it as a fling because you will experience the experience and the woman would be experiencing the younger man.....often though both will only be with the other for a limited time. there are some couples that stay together for years.
I say have fun with what your interested in now and see where it takes you.
please be safe in all you do
2006-10-16 17:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by Marg N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what they are for you. Are you seriously going to want to marry and have a family (or choose not to have a family) with a woman of an older age. They are more fun because they have lived enough to know what they want and not worry about alot of stuff that 20 something girls do. If you want a family, you can't get mixed up seriously with a woman in her 40's because the likelihood that she wants children or doesn't already have them is pretty remote. However a woman in her early 30's would be a good compromise.
I think alot of older women find younger men fun and attractive because they aren't so set in their ways.
2006-10-17 01:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you think that u will find happines in an older woman go for it age is just a number, what matters is what the two of u r willing 2 share,do what u feel is right for u and dnt try and pliz other people. what matters is where u r going 2 find happiness, u might decide to tkae a young woman bt u will never be comfortable good luck, wis u all the happiness in the world
2006-10-16 20:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by judy m 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's a trend. But step back and ask yourself a question. Would you want your mother to divorce your father to sleep around with kids young enough to be her son?
All social responsibility aside, sure older women, particularly those whom are bipolar and recently divorced are very HOT.
2006-10-19 13:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by nickname 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I have your telephone number? I am in my fourties. Ha ha , just kidding. YOu can't help to whom you are attracted to. Just have a good time. I know alot of woman in their 40's who are not satisfied with their sex lives and there dream would be with a young stud like yourself. To have someone that can go on for hours, not a minute man! Enjoy yourself, just wear protection!
2006-10-17 02:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax. You are normal as you think and at the same time you as abnormal as you think. Your own preception counts more than anyone else.
One suggestion - Be with women of your age and select one for a permanent relationship.
2006-10-16 18:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that there are plenty of 30/40 yr old women who would be happy to have a fling with you....Perhaps even marry you...
2006-10-17 03:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its fine..
its special.
its unique..
=)
you're fine.
they would like you too if you just carry more confidence in yourself.
you dont have to be like others...havin fetish on older women are fine man. its good.
cos older women are more matured and their thinkings are really matured wise and you could learn many stuffs from them!
you're not abnormal.
you're just above the rest
=)
as long as you know yourself what kind of person you are.
who cares what would others think?
just be true to youself.
and not being so inferior..you would do well.
but of cos,matured women would want a matured dressing guy and a more gentlemanly guy.not forgettin sweet and gentle to them.
hope these helps. =)
2006-10-16 17:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh yes it is OK, same as you some older women are attracted to younger man, which is very normal, the problem is that, the society doesn't accept it as much as the attraction of the older man to younger women.
2006-10-16 17:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by santa s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you want from an older woman. I love younger men, not too young. Whatever happens, happens.
2006-10-17 03:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋