I had a boyfriend who claimed he love me but is too busy to visit me. Im always the one who arrange for us to meet, i am the first to send messages and call. he seldom do it himself. I feel degraded since im a conservative type but because i love him so much i swallow my pride. Recently i finally decided to break up with him, i told him through text but he never replied. I called and asked if we can meet to talk about it, he has too many reasons, we never met and talked about it. I made it clear to him that we are off. Later through phone he told me that its not okey with him. I felt so confused, does this mean he still love me. I still love him and my purpose for challenging a break up was to test him. When i could not take it anymore i texted and admit i still love him, his response was for me to love again but he will never forget me. Could there be a connection of his being bi-sexual to his attitude, i knew about it before we became formally on but i had accepted it.please help me
2006-10-16 17:27:57 · 5 answers · asked by angel blue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i am going through the same situation.my advice is just to get over this guy. life is too short for you to wait for somebody to make a decision to be wit u or not. if he has too many excuses then he really doesnt seem too interested. i did the same thing but nothing changed so i decided to keep busy just to get my mind off him. good luck.
2006-10-16 17:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit wasting your time with this guy. If someone really LOVES you (not lust, ok? LOVE) then they WANT to spend time with you. If you constantly have to nag him about spending time with you, then he doesn't love you.
You know someone loves you when you can have the nastiest morning breath and they still want to kiss you.
You know someone loves you when you're nasty sick and they still want to hold you and tell you you're beautiful.
You know someone loves you when going shopping for socks is exciting to them just because they're spending time with you.
Not to be too mushy, but that's NOT what you have with this guy. Dump his dumb butt and find someone worth the effort you're willing to put into a relationship.
2006-10-17 00:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by Lesiflea 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we have something in common, my guy does this to me to, but i'm definately not in love with him, so i just talk to him when he calls, and if he don't call i just say f*ck it!!! a friend of mine also had a similar problem with her guy being bi, what's up with all these gay folks?!!! just move on and find a straight man, if not you're setting yourself up to get hurt!!! good luck
2006-10-17 00:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey sorry to say this i think doesn't love u.other wise he will never treat u like this.think he just want to have a girl for name sake
2006-10-17 00:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by true friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time with him. Just treat him as a friend. He doesn't love you!
2006-10-17 00:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋