How do you maintain being holistic when friends and family die one after another?

Answer 1

The fact that death is certain and its timing totally uncertain, should make any death a no surprise event. Yet, strangely, any death, especially that of a near and dear person, invariably shocks us, often to such an extent that completely changes our life.

We never get used to death. It is a boon in disguise, because our ability to lead a life is enhanced if we can keep the thoughts of death away.

I would therefore say that we should expect that we will be shocked by the death of near and dear, and doubly so if these occur one after the other. Once we believe that our shock is only natural and valid, we'll be able to bear it better and come out of it faster.

Answer 2

What the heck are you trying to do? Are You trying to put down
holistic healing? Holistic healing been around alot longer than so called conventional healing also called allapathy...I could say How do you maintain being allapathy when friends and family die one after another? Well for me herbal methods work and my Mom wouldn't stick with them she kept following bad advise from Allapathy doctors..allapathy medicine killed my Mom and same for my step Dad. yes a few friends and cousins too! Also Allapathy methods almost killed me. Herbal methods have save my life! Allapathy Methods be killler not the Holistic methods!

Answer 3

You are asking how to remain holistic in your medicines or life?

First of all, We all die in order to advance. Do not be sad for the departed, weep,if you must, for not being able to join them for the "new" ride.

I would suggest, that you take holistic medicine and life with a grain of salt, along with a grain of salt for conventional medicine.
Find a balance that uses the good from both aspects.

Answer 4

QUestion your own values. Do you think you are a good person and a holy person; keeping God's laws and generally being a service oriented, God fearing person.

What do you expect in return? Riches? A perfect life? EVerlasting life? Actually,, nobody promised you anything for b being good... except everlasting life. It is not of this world; it is somewhere else. If your loved ones lived the same way, they are promised the same. Who are you to deny them their destiny?

Celebrate their lives, and your own. The kingdom of God is at hand. ENjoy your life, enjoy their memories.

Answer 5

you won't be able to do that. remaining holistic is a tough thing to do. your faith may be being challenged and tested.

i'm not trying to quote the bible because you might give me a "rolling of the eyes" thing but consider the story of JOB. everything and everyone he loved was taken away from him because the devil was trying to test this God's follower. Job passed the tests and as a blessing, God gave him everything and everyone back a hundred fold.

time will not heal all wounds but it will be able to teach you how to be strong, not "hardened" in spirit.


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Answer 6

Well, since death is something absolute, so I don't think too much about anyone's death.

Just be yourself, and It'll be just fine.

Answer 7

you juz gotta accept that it is a fact of life... everybody dies....
and if they're the ones who are really close to you then heck... that hurts---alot but then, you still have to go on with your life.. you're living... remember that and i dunno heck if this'll comfort you... one day, you're gonna die too... and you're friends and relatives will feel the loss,,, just like what you're feeling ryt now....

Answer 8

How can a natural process retard a person's inclinations, or pursuit ?

Answer 9

God has His plans for all of us...He owns us coz He's the one that creates us...If He wants to take us...then, be it...why must we afraid?

Answer 10

you know, we really dont know the secrets of GOD. so if that happens what we must do is to pray for their souls and be strong in times of difficulties....GOD knows what is best for us. and lastly, pray and pray and pray always.