Ive been pondering back and forth whether or not they do or they dont, so i am hoping you women can help me out here. And give me your honest opinions as to whether or not they do or they dont.
2006-10-16 16:40:13 · 13 answers · asked by ChanteC 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I hate it when men answer questions like this one, i asked women, not men, you can not possible kno the answer unless you were born a women, and i dont care if your gay, i would greatly appreciate it if you leave aswering question like these to the women!!!!
2006-10-16 16:50:13 · update #1
of course it makes a woman feel better about herself, sexier, when she knows shes wanted by another man
2006-10-16 16:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by crissy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course human natures predicates that a man or woman would be flattered to be pursued by someone they have rejected, or if they are in a relationship and the "suitor" just cannot take no for an answer. However, this is during the infatuation phase of courtrship and once you settle down to having a real relationship these things do not matter. In the long run you want to a form a relationship with a man or woman who does not play games and lets you know that he or she likes you. Lasting relationships are built on trust, friendship, and respect.
2006-10-16 23:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some women see that as being disrespctful. It also shows you have no respect for relationships. It depends on what you mean by pursued.
Women like to feel appreciated. They like to be flattered. However. if you are causing problems with her current relationship by phone calls, letters or flowers, that is not flattering at all.
I think the women that act on these impulses enjoy this, Any woman that is truly in love with her soulmate would not want to be pursued by another.
2006-10-16 23:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by BlondeBarbie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends - if she's into playing games she will like it, if she's not really into the guy she's currently with, she will like it, or if she's just bored and looking for attention, she will like it - i know a guy who only pursues other men's women - i dated him for a few months, then we stopped seeing each other and hadn't talked in about 2 months - he called me recently and i told him i was seeing someone else & now he has been calling & texting me non-stop - so men you tell me what that is about? it was his choice to end the relationship a few months ago.
2006-10-17 11:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by livetall1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, whenever some guy has kept coming on to me after I've told him I was taken, I've just gotten pissed.
Seriously, I have come to loathe the sight of guys that I otherwise would have liked.
If he doesn't respect me enough to believe what I say, why on EARTH does he think I would ever want anything to do with him?
2006-10-16 23:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine Blackthorne 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From a mans prespective i say i don't like it. that is how cheating starts. a woman has a fight with her man and then she runs into the arms of the other man. That is why smith and wesson and divorce lawyers are still in business.
2006-10-17 15:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by King Midas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's good as long as she isn't seriously pursued to the point where it could qualify as stalking.
That's just creepy, and then the whole ego thing doesn't even matter anymore.
2006-10-16 23:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by tigerlilyx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, but the answer is usually yes. It's good for the ego. Guys are the same way.
How they respond to it indicates their character.
2006-10-16 23:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by jeffo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we absolutely love it. Long as the guy is not like a lunatic stalker.
2006-10-17 00:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by barbie2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, but have some chivalry and expect to be treated how you treat your fellow men.
2006-10-16 23:50:06 · answer #10 · answered by g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋