to be 21 years and dont work and dont have a bf at the moment ??
2006-10-16 16:05:03 · 14 answers · asked by Lady Santa 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
For you to be 21 and not have a job is a bit odd unless you have circumstances in your life that you're not telling us about. Like you're a millionaire and don't need to work or there's something that's prohibiting you from working. If you don't have a job just becuase you don't want to put forth the effort, get off your lazy butt and find a job! :) As far as not having a boyfriend - don't worry about. Life shouldn't revolve around the search for love. If it happens it happens. Don't stress out about it. There's more to life. It's not odd.
2006-10-16 16:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by spankie pooter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its odd not to be working. Unless you are a full time student and have someone supporting you (lucky), you should be working, at least part time. The bf thing, well it really has nothing to do with age. There are girls from 14 to 75 who are in a constant state of with or without the boyfriend.
But what are you doing? Trust me, much better now to do something even if you think its not an important job, but save some bucks, it will give you a life boost to have some savings growing. Consider yourself lucky.
2006-10-16 23:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by Coco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is odd to ot have a job at 21 years old unless you are still in college and not having a boyfriend is never odd
2006-10-16 23:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by the_smart_one33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on what you want to do in life. Some people enjoy having a boy/girlfriend and other people are better off alone. As for the job- do you need money for anything at the moment? If not i guess your doin fine
2006-10-16 23:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by 2pac4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess not, I have a 21 and 20 year old sister and both of them don't work or have boyfriends...... It does seem to me like they need to grow up though
2006-10-16 23:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by arl21amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that isn't odd. Your only 21. Give it time.
2006-10-16 23:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boyfriend part isnt a big deal.
I guess the job IS.
Why dont u go get one and do something with ur life.
Gotta have dreams and goals
2006-10-16 23:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, But it would be if you were 41 and don't work, don't have a bf and still lived with your parents.
2006-10-16 23:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by tofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all doll you need to think of yourself you are too young to worry about anything else ,you are awesome ,have a great life and live it the way you choose ,dont let people run it for you babe
2006-10-16 23:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by redneckwoodman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes on the 1st part, whatever makes you happy on the 2nd.
2006-10-17 01:42:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋