At 42, I am married have a son, a few decent friends....but somehow i feel alone...that feeling never really seems to leave me. Anyone else feel that?
2006-10-16 16:00:31 · 12 answers · asked by just lQQkin 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well I just turned 15 and I feel lonely also but I just deal. You can talk to me if you want when you feel lonely...?
2006-10-16 17:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by 2cute4u 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're not the only one, I think it is bad when you are married and feel alone. There never seems to be enough time in the day to just be together and laugh w/ my hubby. My children are great but it is hard to not get any adult conversation in a day and being a waitress to your kids all the time wears me down and then, something happens when I turn on the radio or favorite CD and start to sing and dance, the age difference goes out the window. Except my style of dance may be a little dated- Thats ok. Don't let the music die in your life. We change and so does the world, get to know it again and get to know yourself again. You will make it through this lonliness thing. Don't take anything too serious, life is just temporary.
2006-10-16 17:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by cruisingalong 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow i have been sitting here all this time thinking i feel so alone cause i have no friends no boyfriend a little baby girl who can't talk yet and i keep thinking maybe if i could make some new friends and find a decent guy to be with that i won't feel this way anymore but evidently i was wrong since you have everything that i'm lacking and yet you still feel the same way.What is wrong with this picture??What is wrong with this world??I hate life!!!!
2006-10-17 14:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by serenity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone feels that, especially in their 40's.
Because in the basic decisions of life and those at the end of life, you ARE alone to grapple with those choices.
Of course, you're not a complete orphan -- there's your husband, son and a few friends -- the terrible truth is that you're ahead of the game, you're doing better than average!
2006-10-16 16:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes...and it was because I was not going 'within', I was going 'without'.
I decided to read a book on spiritual growth...the rest is my history....I have not looked back...and now I am never alone, even when alone, I am never alone.
Spirit has a way of letting you know they are there loving us all of the way.....
I now have Archangel Michael as my best friend. He is always 'here' right now with me.....it is also in the work that I now do....after going 'within' I found my lifes path....and now am Mastering my own Destiny......
Love, Light 'n' Never Be Alone!
Harriett Potty
2006-10-16 16:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by harriettpotty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i comprehend i like time on my own, yet now and again at the same time as i'm residing house on my own i think on my own and that i do not comprehend what to do. I in a number of of situations in basic terms pay interest to Celine Dion-because you loved me. over and throughout back. because on Wednesday my brother is going decrease back accurate college and both my moms and dads are operating so I somewhat might want to be residing house on my own ALL day yet i opt to flow to my aunty's because i'd be lonely.Thats truly unhappy. I desire i replaced into there to convenience you. this is like i have not in any respect necessary all of us a lot as a lot as i want a particular man or woman now.
2016-12-04 22:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by leacock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, feeling lonely is normal. No matter what anyone has they always want more. There might be something in your family life that you may not be happy about. But in anycase you have to be happy with what you have and slowly you will notice that feeling fade away. Love yourself becuase everyone in this world only has themselves,,
2006-10-16 16:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by xxkhbxx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I just read one of your answers and I know that It was God that I clicked into your profile. Let me tell you about lonelyness honey there are some people with no one or nothing at all what we dont realize is that we are not alone and we are truly blessed!
there are states and countrys that cannot worship God or they will die and we have tons of food and water and soda in this country we are so blessed all you need to feel that void in your life is God believe me I've had it b4 too like you growing up with
no dad its hard but think of what our mothers felt I understand you grew up without your mother and dad but God can feel all
voids thats what he is for believe in him and he will do everything
for you. God Bless. love ya
2006-10-17 11:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you feel lonely... for a loving connecting relationship
with a son and hubby you are NOT alone- there's a difference
2006-10-16 16:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel intimate with anyone? What I mean is, is there someone with whom you share your thoughts and dreams?
2006-10-16 16:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋