It is like this...i loved a gurl...but she is family.**her grand pa and the grand ma of my mother are brothers and sisters...To tell you the truth I was in emergency room in the past weekends by taking to many pills...I was in big fight with my mind..she is from Germany...she came to visit the family...At that time I was moving to her aunts house...we haven't been seen for about 12 years....we are now grown..we start talking...and i start to know all the things.....she waz fulfilling all the requirments to be my gurl....i have 8 requirements....she just match to my all questions..and we go out for party...we were drunk...till then i didn't tried to kiss her...At that time we were filling hot.. she just came closer to me...and then we start kissing...after that we kiss all the time ..on every moment...on every second....we smoke together...we were having a good times....but the time has come to go back to her home....on saturday afternoon ...i cann't take it...i don't know what to do..
2006-10-16 15:39:48 · 10 answers · asked by merlove143 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You'll get over it, and when you do you'll find another little number to lust after. Forbidden puppy love.
2006-10-16 16:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not so sure what to tell you about the whole family thing....but love is love and if you let her go you will never know what could of been. If she feels the same try to work out something. She may have to go back home but if that happens continue to communicate with her whether via email or if she has no access to a computer then write letters back and forth. I know it will be hard and you will miss her so much it hurts but if it is meant to be you two will find your way back to each other and find a way to make it work. It may also be just a crush so i would wait to tell any family members till you know for sure.Good luck.
2006-10-16 15:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by lynn21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there... My advice: don't go there. Love her from afar. Why? My Reason for saying that: Unless you are both over 22 years of age and have both openly confessed your love to each other and are not seeing other people. You will have to face those three challenges first. Then move to the fact of telling your families that you are choosing to be together as more than just cousins.
Just trust me on this.
2006-10-16 15:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was your "gurl" I would require you take second grade spelling over. You have been to the emergency room for attempting to commit suicide....
Gee....you have a lot of growing up to do before you get into a relationship.
2006-10-16 15:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm Tried to commit suicide. Thats real "smart" The good thing about suicide is it gets rid of the weaklings in the gene pool. As to the girl, forget it. Its called incest and in most countries not generally approved of.
2006-10-16 15:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by asbratcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enable me tell u a touch secret .. i loved my buddy .. i loved him a lot .. and he didnt be conscious my love .. and he loved anther woman .. and when I knew truly i wanted she replaced into me for once .. then u comprehend .. i informed myself noooo .. i desire him all extra constructive and happiness .. he advantages all of it .. i dun comprehend .. I'mnt an angel expensive yet i wanted him all happiness and that i replaced into satisfied 4 him too it is cos i really loved him .. and when I knew that the girl he loves dun have any feeling for him .. I CRIED For him .. yeah i cried i didnt care with myself yet i cared for him .. it truly is love that u can sacrifice with something even ur happiness to make ur cherished happier and extra constructive ..
2016-12-04 22:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a sweet learning experience. Appreciate it for what it was while it lasted, smile whenever you think of her, and move on.
2006-10-16 15:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, if she has to leave then it's not meant to be. You will find someone else I am sure. Good Luck.
2006-10-16 15:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by prettyfalcon197 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are not first cousins it is ok.
2006-10-16 15:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it...she is distant enough kin that it won't matter.
2006-10-16 15:47:11 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋