women, do u think there is anything wrong with a man who wants to hear his g/f voice several times a day on the phone. I drive a truck and that is the only contact that i have with her for upto 3 weeks at a time. I call every morning, leave a good morning/ i love u message on her phone at work, but she does not have enough decentcy or caring to do the same for me. I now that this is petty but i would be nice if she would. i have asked her to call me first thing in the morning and just before she goes to bed so i can say goodnite to her and this pissed her off. Is this such a big thing to ask and i though that this is what women wanted, a mare who cared. any thoughts
2006-10-16 15:39:39 · 15 answers · asked by keithy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe you two just are'nt right for each other! She does'nt sound like the girl for you! Why would something like that piss her off?? I would be wondering about that if i were you!! Are you sure you are the only one she is seeing?? It's just something to think about...! I think most women would like your attentiveness!!! I know i would.... There has got to be something more going on!!
2006-10-16 16:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with it, in fact I think it's very sweet that you do this. It shows that you really care for her and miss her while you're on the road. And it's not right that she gets mad that you ask her to do this. In fact you shouldn't have to ask if she loved you and missed you as well. My husband and I see each other everyday and he stiil calls through the day when he has a minute.
My husband had to deal with court stuff after his father's death a year or so ago and had to be in LA for about 3 days. He called me when he landed to switch planes and then called me when he checked into his hotel at 10pm that evening. Then he called an hour later and we talked for 3 hours just to hear the others voice. Needless to say I can't imagine being gone for weeks at a time and NOT want to hear each others voice.
2006-10-16 22:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by Troubled 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, my husband is a truck driver and we talk at least 4-5 times a day, or text each other many different things. Wow I do not no what her problem is. If she loves you and misses you you would think that she would want to hear from you. Something don't sound right, she may be up to something. Good luck
2006-10-16 22:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds very stupid you are a great guy to be so devoted but i think she is not good enough for you ..you are a one of a kind and you had to end up with this *****...she may be cheating on you because you are gone for long periods of time i would check this out...there is a reason why she is not answering or calling you back..good luck sureilll
2006-10-16 23:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a very sweet thing to do. I would like for my man to do that more often. I don't really understand why she'd get pissed off about that. Most of us love all the attention.
2006-10-16 23:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I wish more guys were like you. No, I dont think that youre asking to much, and if she valued the relationship she would call you sometimes at least. You seem like a great guy, I hope she comes around, you know the saying people dont realize what they have until they lose it. Take care sweetie.
2006-10-16 22:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband travels a lot too and I would love it if he did that for me. And an I love you message? omg! That is such a nice thing. She must be crazy. What more does she expect from you?
2006-10-16 22:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by dianee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it is a big thing to ask. Personally I think lots of woman would appreciate receiving calls from the man they love. Perhaps your girlfriend was just too busy to give you a call.
2006-10-16 22:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cant imagine being annoyed with my husband for wanting to talk to me if I did not see him for long periods of time. it shows you care for her. She does not seem like she cares back though. Are you sure shes faitfhful or still into the relationship? It sounds like she doesnt want it.
2006-10-16 23:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your a real romantic. Nice to hear. Doesn't sound like she is though. Maybe she is not the one for you, sorry. Women ususally love to do things like that for their man when they truly love them .
2006-10-17 01:37:11 · answer #10 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋