My wife and I have been seperated for two months.Things were starting to work out and all of a sudden she did a 360. She is not wanting to talk to me and does not return my calls.Is she trying to teach me a lesson? I am 99% sure it is not about someone else.Our seperation was due to my mistakes...ect. control freak,verbal abuse...and so on.
2006-10-16 15:14:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If she hands you divorce papers to sign, there's a chance that it might be over.
2006-10-16 15:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by FireKracker187 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Top ten reaons you know it is over:
10. The dog is sleeping on your side of the bed.
9. There are two kids in the bed and they sleep between you.
8. He/she urges you to buy a larger life insurance policy.
7. There is a no contact order filed with the courts.
6. All visitation with the kids must be supervised.
5. You must go to court ordered anger management class.
4. Your phone number is blocked.
3. The locks are changed.
2. All the empty promises are now ignored and she has an attorney.
1. You pay support through the system.
2006-10-16 15:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by Valerie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Signs are there that it is over. And hopefully you learned from this and when you move forward in life you do not repeat the same ways about you. If you control people and are abusive in any manner or fashion I am here to tell you most ladies will not tolerate this behavior. And if you find one that does, is that the type of relationship you want, one built on fear of you? I surely would hope not. Get counseling seek help look directly at your errors and mistakes and demand from yourself that you will not repeat these personality traits of yours ever again. Be honest with yourself.
2006-10-16 15:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She probably talked to someone and relized she could do better. No one should take verbal abuse and or any other form of abuse there are so many other very nice people out there that she doesn't have to take it. i would let her be and try to find someone else that wants to be abused or change your ways and learn how to deal with you feelings and treat the next one like a queen.
2006-10-16 15:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by ygraine1 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Instead of trying to figure out if you marriage is over, have you asked yourself have I made any changes since I am the reason for this separation in the first place? You are not going to change in 2 months. What have you done to improve in the 2mos? Have you sought counseling? It sounds like your wife said enough is enough!
2006-10-16 15:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by lalinda 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-02 09:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thrill is gone, pal! time to move on.
2006-10-16 15:24:33 · answer #7 · answered by curtis_lloyd2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its time to move on, shes telling you.
2006-10-16 15:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I think she wants to move on....sorrry !
2006-10-16 15:25:44 · answer #9 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its over...
2006-10-16 15:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋