Do you really love your man or are you just using him to get what you want? I see entirely too much of this and think it is sad. That's why I won't date.
2006-10-16 14:52:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i'm single and loving it, but if i had a man i wouldn't just manipulate him. i agree, it is very sad.
2006-10-16 14:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by truth seeker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Pecanpiei:
Bless your heart! You have just not met the right woman yet! Very few women are only after selfish pursuits. What most women want is an honest, genuine connection with a caring man. If you haven't come across this in your life, you've been looking in all the wrong places. I promise there is a girl out there worthy of your time and love. You just haven't found her yet. But you are young and there is plenty of time. Keep looking and stay positive. Love always finds a way to those who are willing to open their heart and their minds. Good luck!
2006-10-16 22:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by mimi22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. No one is being used though, it's just after twenty something years and kids and mortgage and life situations, who the heck cares anymore? You've been broken and pummeled down into submission. You just move mechanically, working to keep the bills paid and finshing raising the kids. After the last one is done though, I will have officially finished my life sentence and I'm gone. Yes, it is sad.
2006-10-16 22:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by Noelle S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you are really jaded. Yes I love my man and so do all the women I know. You are encountering the wrong type of person. There is no reason to be with a man unless you love him and it feels lovely, give it a try.
2006-10-16 21:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by aouija 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i gave up on all guys. i dont date to love and i dont date to use. when i did date i thought i might have found love and find the forever type destiny/ fate everyone wants. but i agree with u this is sad. it is rather pathetic. that is why i dont date. it had happend to me one too many times.
2006-10-16 22:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by rock83189 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly do love my husband,I don't need a man to get what I want.I am capable of getting anything and everything I want or need on my own.
2006-10-16 22:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by crystal powell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love my husband completely. He is truly a blessing from the Lord!
2006-10-16 22:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by Von 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about men who use women? that's ok?
When I get married it is going to be for love. I'm not getting married men are jerks. That is what all you men think.
I am going to get an education and a job and you guys can go, where ever it is you go.
2006-10-16 21:57:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course I love my husband.I wouldn't have been married to him the last years years and have 3 children with him if I didn't.
2006-10-16 22:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a man, but I wouldn't waste my time using someone.
2006-10-16 22:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I have a boyfriend I care about him. I would rather be with someone who is poor and can't give me anything then someone who can buy me whatever I want.
2006-10-16 21:58:32 · answer #11 · answered by yourtoppriority212121 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋