2006-10-16 14:51:17 · 10 answers · asked by diamond 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Either it takes a whole lot for you to orgasm or your husband isn't doing a real good job.
2006-10-16 14:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by Kelli M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure thereis nothing wrong with you. Relax. Women hit their sexual peak in their 30's. You may not know exactly what will do it for you yet. Your husband probably doesn't know what to do, for how long, where ect... I was married for 18 yrs and very rarely orgasmed with my husband. I meet a man who makes me c*m again and again and again. I am 38yrs old. Just remember that practice makes perfect and what fun it is to practice! It takes time but eventually you will both learn what buttons to push. Don't make orgasm the ultimate goal. Enjoy all the sensations. Enjoy each other and eventually it will come. Pun definately intended!
2006-10-16 21:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by Stephani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of ways to have orgasms and how you can have it. But let me asked you how do you describe orgasm. I supposed you had actually experienced it but that you don't exactly know that....that's it! I suggest you do more foreplays during sexual activities before engaging into sexual intercourse(the actual penetration of the penis into the women's vagina).
I need to know your idea or how do you describe orgasm. Because there areactually 4 phaes of sexual intercourse...orgasm is one. Let me share it wtih you once you answer be back, ok?
2006-10-16 21:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by nursing_2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down, talk about what makes you feel good to your mate. Get to know each other sensual side. Explore. Shoo it's LEGAL SEX. Anything goes! Congratualtions
2006-10-16 21:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I was married 4 TIMES before I had my first orgasm, of course I didn't know I had't one til I really did. It's a clit thing...
2006-10-16 21:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by venusiaint 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not relaxed enough and you are concentrating too hard on other things. That would have an effect on your orgasm or lack of.
2006-10-16 22:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Orgasm.....there's nothing wrong with you.
What both of you can do is to have foreplay for a longer time before you attempt to have actual intercourse.
2006-10-16 22:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever tried water pressure ( like in the bathroom's water shower) on your cl*t? the best clitorial orgasm ever!! it is the same as being sucked on the clitoris. have u ever tried cunilingus?
2006-10-16 22:07:16 · answer #8 · answered by _PeTaL_D`oR_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you masturbated ..........do you know what one feels like......maybe try different positions with hubby get creative have fun and relax.......let loose it'll happen!
2006-10-16 21:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by crownvic64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you,you may need a little extra help,try a vibrator on you cl**.
2006-10-16 21:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋