i did a huge mistake by getting drunk and not using protection, and now im only a few weeks pregnant, but i dont want to carry this burden.
2006-10-16 14:28:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
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2006-10-17 11:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gosh... this is such a mixed reaction type of subject. I hope you are ready to see hate words... because this is where they'll be posted.
Firstly - I understand how you must feel. Even I cannot imagine what it would be like to find out you're pregnant and... not be ready for "a child" (not a burden)
BUT - you are wearing big girl pants and you're making big girl decisions... using protection should have been at the top of the list for a man/woman who isn't ready for kids. I mean, you can blame it on the alcohol if you want, but I've been pretty bloody drunk before and have NEVER forgotten to tell my guy to grab a rain coat.
All of that is in the past now, so you have to deal with today.
I suggest you carry the child full term, and if you still don't think you're ready, allow someone (who doesn't so easily have the privilege of bearing children) adopt the baby.
All I know is... my mom miscarried the child before me and still to this day, 55 years old, regrets not being able to save him.
Ask yourself how you might feel in 30 years knowing you had taken life before life had a chance...
Do some research. See a counselor. Do whatever it takes to take care of you, right now, ...and do what's best for your unborn child.
2006-10-16 21:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by apinkfreak 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well dont think is a burden, but depending on how many weeks you are, will determine the type of procedure the doctor will do. Most of the time is a suction. They suck all the fluids and the fetus out of you system,
2006-10-17 00:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by sugar507 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you. Before you abort the baby, I just want to challenge you to look into the future and imagine your child growing up happy and healthy in a family that can care for him or her, and how thankful the child would be knowing that their mother gave them a chance to experience life. I honestly don't anything about getting an abortion, but just know that I'll be praying for you.
2006-10-16 21:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you - its a hard decision. It's also one i don't believe you should be judged for - no one knows what is going on in your life/your background/your thought process to get to this decision.
If you believe that abortion is the best option then it is your decision.
I'm not sure where you are located but there should clinics etc in phone books or even if you use "google" specifying your area. Go to a reputable establishment - get counselling if you need it to make an informed decision. Best of luck
2006-10-16 22:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by Smiley One 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to really consider what you would be doing by having an abortion, its a decision you cant change. If you do what to do this, do it safely, go through a clinic in your area. Do some research, phone books, or online. Please take this as a learning lesson and make sure you aren never put in this situation again, and when YOU are ready, you will be able to have a family.
2006-10-16 21:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by Why? ... 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do not punish your child by murdering him or her for your mistakes. It is your fault, not theirs. Please I don't care what everyone else says about it not being a baby yet. It IS!! If it weren't a baby, you wouldn't be pregnant. PLEASE don't kill your baby. If you cant handle a baby, choose adoption. Your baby will know that you cared enough to give him or her to someone who couldn't have a baby. My husband and I have been desperately trying to adopt a baby for 4 yrs and for someone to say they are having an abortion breaks my heart. It seems so unfair that you do not want a baby and there are people like me that want one so bad they lie in bed some days and cry for hours and you are the one pregnant!
2006-10-16 22:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by Patty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not allow us members on this forum to shame you or lay a guilt trip on you about not wanting to carry this CYTOBLAST to full term. Go to your local planned parenthood center or womens health center and talk to them ASAP. I believe that people should leave the choice to the person who has to make the choice not condemn them for their beliefs. They are not the ones having to try to perhaps CONCEAL or PAY for the birthing process and so do what you need to do. Will you even want the drunken **** sperm donor to be in your and possibly this childs life FOREVER? Cuz believe me it doesn't stop when the child becomes 18 and an adult. There are those donors and donees that will harass one another throughout the rest of each others lives for what they have done to the child or what they didn't do for the child. Make your appointment and great luck and peace to you.
2006-10-16 22:03:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't know your age or who you are, but I like some other users really want a baby. It is a need for us and I understand that some woman do not want to be mothers or desire to be at certain times. I encourage you to either have an abortion as early as possible or put your child up for adoption. The sooner you get the abortion the better it is for you and your unborn child. Good luck.
I am PRO-CHOICE! A woman has the right to choose.
2006-10-16 21:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Day 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
That little baby is not a burden. please do not kill your baby. If you do not want to raise it then please put it up for adoption so others out there that are trying to concieve a baby and can't, Can have the chance to be a parent. You would be making another couple's dreams come true and your baby would have a chance. God bless you in your decision.
2006-10-16 21:37:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋