English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

How did you deal with the loss? Did you lose other freinds or family relationships due to the loss of one person? Can you offer any tips to let go & move on?

I've tried 3 times to communicate with this freind in the last year; even offered to go to counceling. I wanted to work on unhealthy aspects & hurtful things that had happened, but she was unwilling which is why I ended the friendship in the first place.

2006-10-16 14:24:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

5 answers

yep-you just have to move on and get over it and realize that it is not worth the drama and the stress. When people ask about my cousin, I simply say that we don't talk anymore. say your peace, apologize for any miscommunications and then you know that you did all that you can do. once you've done that then you can go on.

2006-10-16 14:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sharp Marble 6 · 1 0

I have not lost too many friends, but after my mothers' death, it destoyed the whole family, and no-one seems to want to communicate anymore, I have tried on several times to communicate, but you can only do so much, it has to be a give and take. My family will always be my family, and that is it. But I will not be pulled into the games that are being played. In time maybe this will heal, but at this time I have a life that I am proud of, and the loss of my family is sad, BUT life does go on..You only have one life and that is yours to make the best of it, regarding outside issues.

2006-10-16 14:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jamaison D 3 · 2 0

Friends and people come in and out of your lfe lke a waiter waiting on tables. Tme to move on.

2006-10-16 14:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by mermer7@sbcglobal.net 3 · 2 0

yeah i have lost frienships before but you learn to deal with slowly. i know its hard but you have to let go. yeah it was hard for me but i learned to deal with it.

2006-10-16 14:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by lavoniex3 2 · 0 0

life is never easy and neither is family or friends yea i got three sisters and four brothers and in oct 98 my oldest sister lost her 13 year old son to cancer and in dec of 98 i got pregnant with my second son and she kept telling me that GOD sent her another child she wanted me to give her my baby and she like to have drove me nuts but i left that town and went back to my home town 700 miles away and she talked about me like a dog calling saying nasty things and such went on til our mother passed away in april of 2000 she came home acting like miss perfect and lovey dovey and you could just feel the tension from her. In may of 2000 my moms husband committed suicide in his gf bed so that left my baby brother to be raised he was 12 out of 7 adult kids of my mothers i was the only one that stood up and took him in i had two kids myself and so once i got his social security check started and stuff the baby sister kept putting things in his head so i provided a home and food and clothes and anything he wanted put him in therapy and stuff but the baby sister started buying him skoal and letting him drink at the age of 14 and i started having major problems with him anyway to make long story short he is almost 19 now and has a kid of his own which does not live with him she lives with her mom which lives with her mom and is still in school...he winds up quitting school because he was back and fourth between me and the baby sister and she let him get by with anything he wanted and when he would get mad at her he would move back in with me and so fourth but he has turned me into the social services for abuse toward him because he drawed his fist on me one day cause i caught him smoking and he was always screaming at me i let it go cause of mama thought he was having hard time,,,, so i smacked his face and but he even went to school telling teachers this stuff that i beat him with dog collars locked him in closets and never fed him (he weighed 200 lbs at 14 and he weighs 240 now at 18) i weigh and always weigh 140 he is 6'0 i am 5'8 but the preachers wife worked at the school as the secretary and she called me and told me what happned and i confronted him in front of police and social services and teachers and he finally told them he just got mad at me cause i wouldnt let him have his way......he still causes me trouble even though he dont live with me anymore...he told my sister under me that i acted like i was on a pedistal and he was gonna knock me off of it ......so my baby sister older sister and baby brother all have been on me i finally told them i was tired of being bullied by them and i am through with this family and cut them off sometimes you have to do whats best for you things are gonna happen but thats life we live and we learn.......good luck

2006-10-16 14:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by att_i_tude2006 3 · 0 0

fedest.com, questions and answers