okay she been getting me into alot of trouble. and my mom says that if I have a birthday party than I can't invite her but every other girl in my grade and I fell guilty because if I were in her shoes I would think that to be unfair to and my mom says she dosen't car because the girl got me into trouble but even still I will still feel guilty and I tried explaining it to my mom so what should I do about this I'm 14.[ about the age of alot of DRAMA] and also I don't want to hurt her feellings. so what should i do?
2006-10-16 14:18:07 · 7 answers · asked by lady 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i mean I don't even think she relizes that she got me into trouble and she is always tryin to say she sorry and the reason I don't want to hurt her feelings is because even still she talked about me and called me names I'm going to invite to my praty girls who have called me ***** Dirty because I'm black and the reason I am inviting them because even still they called me those names two wrongs don't make a right. And I'm not like them and I don't call the different names because they are right I'm different
2006-10-17 10:49:17 · update #1
i meant that they called me dirty and filthy and ***** because I'm black and I will not call them white because they are different color.
2006-10-17 10:51:10 · update #2
hi.........
im 15 and i know what you mean just tell her your mom dosent like her but its not your fault and you want it to be straight between you 2. oh and she dosent sound like a friend.
2006-10-16 14:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How has she gotten you into trouble? First of all, a REAL friend wouldn't do anything to get you into trouble. And, I'm sorry but your mother is right by not wanting her daughter to spend time with someone she fears will take her in the wrong direction. It would probably be smart to stay away from that person, you don't have to be mean about it. Just tell her that your mother grounded you if she wants to hang out. It's ok to lie in those kind of situations.
2006-10-16 14:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by Keekla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your true friend then talk to her and tell her the situation. Explain that your mom is worried and thinks you should take a break from hanging out. If she truly is concerned about this maybe she will sit down and talk with you and your mom to get any misconceptions cleared up.
Instead of having a big party with everyone but her have a low key party with just a few of your Best Friends
2006-10-16 14:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lyssa D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mom knows best. Why are you so concerned about not hurting the feelings of this girl who got you into trouble?
2006-10-16 14:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did she do?
obey your mother. she knows best.
why do you want to hang around someone who gets you into trouble? You know it's easier for a person to drag someone else down that it is for the other person to pull the other up. surround yourself with positive influences. the world is hard enough.
2006-10-16 14:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by april_hwth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl let me tell you what to do 1st you just stay away from her if she do it hold ground and say no
2006-10-16 14:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lovely cryz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurt her feelings and wave by by to her. did she care about your feelings when she was getting you into trouble ... i dont think so!
2006-10-16 14:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by Skorpian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋