This girl has been my best friend forever...well, all at once she's hitting on my guy. He doesn't like her and would never cheat on me, but still...it pisses me off. I've confronted her with it and she denies it, yet she keeps on doing it?!? I love them both, what should I do???
2006-10-16 14:09:46 · 21 answers · asked by runner442 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is probably trying to break you two up.. It's probably not that she likes him, but she's jealous of your relationship. Maybe you need to spend some more quality time with her without the boyfriend around. Don't let her feel that she's your second choice. Remember she'll be the one who will be helping you pick up the pieces if the boyfriend doesn't last.
2006-10-16 14:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by angelica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy **** what a dilemma - do some straight talking with your friend she obviously needs to be confronted again, let her know that its black and white - back off or sod off- if your guy is honest and only has eyes for you trust him and carry on as normal-remember that its not only romantic relationships that can break down long lasting friendship can have a habbit of doing this sometimes too- go with your gut instinct and good luck
2006-10-16 14:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling her again go about it nicely but if it keeps happining just tell her that you cant be around her for a while untill she stops hitting on your boyfriend. Jut give it to her stright up front and dont beat around the bush she'll understand in the end. No one should have to choose between their boyfriend and their friend. Good luck
Kristin
P.S let me know how it works out my email is adorablegrl1986@yahoo.com
2006-10-16 14:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by adorablegrl1986 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this girl were really your best friend she would not be acting in this manner. It's time to tell this girl that the two of you can no longer be friends since she doesn't respect you enough to leave your boyfriend alone.
Please find yourself a new best friend because this girl is bad news.
2006-10-16 14:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that there are consequences for every action and that she is not respecting you or your boyfriend for that matter. Does your boy feel uncomfortable? if so maybe he should step up when shes doing it and just say "hey i know your flirting wiht me i dont like it and do not appreciate it one bit. please stop." and well maybe she just is not the friend she used to be people change all the time for no reason. I'm sorry about the situation GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-16 14:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by star_angel_1713 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ease with the paranoia to start. I talk to my friends wives all the time, its what you do, be nice to your friends lovers. Now if she is actively pursuing him, that is a different story. But regardless, you seem threatened, so I guess you aren't secure enough with yourself to think that your man would leave you for her, so you need to work on that issue yourself.
2006-10-16 14:12:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch and see what happens. If she keeps hitting on him say I thought you were my friend. Then she might stop but if she doesn't then she's just a bad friend.
2006-10-16 14:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by lola_pup159 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she doing it in front of you...if so then maybe she isn't doing it intentionally and its just how she is...maybe your boyfriend is taking it the wrong way. Maybe you should confront him...sit them both down and talk to them is what i would suggest
2006-10-16 14:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by Johnna B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend is jealous. You may have to point it out to her when she starts flirting. If it continues, she's obviously not respecting you so she's not a good friend. Let her go.
2006-10-16 14:12:33 · answer #9 · answered by LadyDeathStryke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should say what shes doing or saying exactly and no shes not a good friend if she wants your boyfriend confront her about your feelings.
2006-10-16 14:13:11 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋