I still want to be friends with her. how do I keep our friendship but tell her I don't want to go out with her? thanks
peace
2006-10-16 14:00:49 · 15 answers · asked by Sidekick Showstopping Wannabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your answers are good and stuff, so thanks a lot. oh yeah I forgot to add, i AM leading her on because it's FUN. so sue me! haha. seriously tho I led her on, made her THINK i liked her, but now she's realizing the truth. How do I keep from her feelings hurting? you guys have to realize i care about her feelings. thanks.
2006-10-16 14:07:21 · update #1
oh another thing. I DID sleep with her. and now why the hell does she want me still? jeez wasn't one night enough? alright
peace
2006-10-16 14:08:03 · update #2
Women put sex and love together where men don't. She probably thinks you have feelings for her because you had sex with her. You just need to be a man with her and tell her that you can't reciprocate the same feelings. Maybe you could even tell her that you have a girlfriend, even if you don't. You need to reinforce that you don't have feelings for her or she will still be hanging on.
2006-10-16 15:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really sure what the race issue has to do here, but if you know someone likes you and its not how you feel, you need to tell her. If she does not still want to be friends, oh well what can you do? But leading her on is not a "friend" thing to do.
2006-10-16 21:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be upfront and honest.
Although honesty might hurt, it's better then lying to her and her finding out you lied. Explain to her that her friendship is so valuable to you that you don't want to risk losing a friendship over something that may not work.
One question to you, is race an issue? I'm only asking because you felt the need to tell us yours and her race. If you don't date outside your race, tell her that as well.
2006-10-16 21:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha. You're probably nice guy, right? Usually....
Well.
Hmm.
I got nothing for ya.
Yep.
Somehow I don't think this question is made up either. Sounds like something someone cute would do to some idiot girl who should know better.
*sigh*
People like you are why I hate most guys just for being guys....
2006-10-16 21:18:25 · answer #4 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly don't see where race makes a difference. If you don't want to be with her in the same way then just be honest. Tell her you value her friendship but have no desire to take it any further.
2006-10-16 21:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she is so awesome!!! You love hanging out with her. You think shes a pretty girl, but you dont see her in"that way". Try to ask her what kind of guy s she's interested in, BESIDES you, and then coach her in her quest.
2006-10-16 21:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mr wondering 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not even going to answer your question because I feel that although you may have a problem - I don't get why you had to specify that you are asian and she is white.
2006-10-16 21:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u don't want to hurt her feelings then stop leading her on, geeze! Besides, what does race have to do with this question anyway???
2006-10-16 21:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter that you Asian and she's White, this applies to anyone of any race/ethnic group. Say you don't like her like that, but you two can still be friends.
2006-10-16 21:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by ^_^ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1. dont do or talk about anything romantic, she'll think your trying tohit on her and she'll go for it.
#2. just tell her you want to be her friend. and her friend only!
#3. just dont evwer ask her out! simple as that. i think...
Good luck!
Peace
2006-10-16 21:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by Le Phantom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋