I am fortunate to have 3 men wanting to marry me. Here is my story:
I m 40 years old-full figure-no children-not much money-divorced woman.
I have 3 great guys..this is their story:
Man 1-tall, handsome,well settled in life, sweet & good to me. We make good looking couple together.He wants lots of kids w/ me!! BUT he dumped me 2 months ago unmercifully...then called again & has more than made up for his bad behaviour by treating me like a queen! I m very happy w/him
Man 2-cute, but very short, we get along like brother & sister..he is willing to relocate his life to live in my town..BUT he does not want children {sz we r too old!} He does not have career has to return to school etc..
Man 3- wants marriage, he is very short, he is richer than the others, very sweet, devoted to me, already lives in my town.
I m in love with #1 & 2 deeply. They r all MusIim i have to make decision after Ramadaan. I do not want to hurt anyone,they all believe they r the only one in my life. HELP!
2006-10-16 13:52:58 · 13 answers · asked by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hon, the best thing to do in this situation is to picture this person in your life everyday, who are you the happiest with? Who makes your heart skip that extra little beat, who makes you smile & your face glow when you think of him. Money is a wonderful asset but it will not make you happy, I am broke and work 60 hours a week & Im 45 years old but I am happy, my husband is a good man, he works hard too, he lets me be who I am . Marry the man who you feel you could not do without> good luck
2006-10-16 14:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by lesa b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
old saying "When in doubt, do nothing". You are not ready to get married. Marriage has nothing to do with tall or short, rich or poor, job or no job. It has to do with commitment, someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, someone you love being with and you can grow together. Wanting children or not wanting children is not an issue. The issue is you are dating three men at the same time which shows you are not ready for marriage, obviously none of them has everything you are looking for, so dump them all and relax and let nature take its course. If you are supposed to find someone, you will and if not, being single has alot of advantages.
2006-10-16 21:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would appear that since you cannot decide between the three men, then you are actually more interested in the concept of being married than the men themselves.
Who should you marry? None of the above.
If you really believe that you are "deeply" in love with two different men, then I would suggest that you do not really have a grasp of the concept of marriage.
2006-10-16 20:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by zdrgnslyr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm... No need to hurry.
Seems to me that you are in love with the concept of love itself. Marriage however is more than that. At your age, you should already know what you need and want. Do you like children? Do you like men who are already establish or are you willing to support in case they still are not....
Things like this you need to understand and answer on your own first before you even decide about other men or man coming into your life.
2006-10-16 21:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by sexy_mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man 3 - seems most decent and sensible. Deep love will go away when man 1 repeats his bad acts...undoubtedly and man 2 will involve suffering because a loser and you may decide you want kids.
2006-10-16 21:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by meldorhan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose MAN # 1, he is the only one you described that you are happy being with.
happiness is after all, should be the end point of each life.
2006-10-16 20:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by Busy Diyosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure, I would not make a decision yet. Forget about Ramadan, that's a decision you want to be very sure about!!!
2006-10-16 21:00:11 · answer #7 · answered by KT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for the money, loves fades and gets betrayed and when it does you'll at least get half.
2006-10-16 21:42:52 · answer #8 · answered by Kimma 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow,you should be ashamed. 3 men? Way to respect and honor yourself...yuck
2006-10-16 21:40:35 · answer #9 · answered by *Juicy Princess* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is not a game, it is also not about the life you are going to lead but who you are going to spend it with, consider what you feel most comfortably, one you want to grow old with, who you love...
2006-10-16 21:08:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋