Just found out the girl I was about to marry is from Japan and is Japanese. I am Irish. I've been dating her for 3 years and she never told me.
2006-10-16 13:32:38 · 22 answers · asked by wolfwi4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How'd that happen?
2006-10-16 13:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. But how did you not know she was from Japan and is Japanese after dating for 3 years? hhmmmm
2006-10-16 13:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you date someone for 3 years and not know what nationality she is? Have you ever met her or has it been online dating? The only thing though that actually matters is if you love her and see yourself spending the rest of your life with her. If you can answer that with, 'yes' and i could not see my life without her.... then go for it ask her to be your wife. Good luck
2006-10-16 13:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dated her for 3 years and u didnt know? is this a online date thing? cuz then i understand i dont see the problem so she didnt tell u her religion why should that matter my bf shawn doesnt care that im vietnamese and he's irish.
2006-10-16 13:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be dating for three years and not know what she looked like or where shes from. That right there is an honesty and trust issue. Marriage might not be right, at least right now, and if you haven't seen her in person, how do you kow if there are any sparks?
2006-10-16 13:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by advicemama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok will you finish the rest of the joke, most Irish know how to tell a joke
2006-10-16 13:36:53 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would she tell you? If you have been dating for 3 years and you have never asked her about her family and her heritidge, why do you care now?
2006-10-16 13:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by tiredinaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
If you are asking random people to help cast you fate, then do not get married. You are not ready.
There are much tougher issues that you will face - and you need to learn to make tough decisions on your own.
2006-10-16 13:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by JJW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love her?
Have you been leading this relationship towards marriage and now you have cold feet because she is of a different nationality?
Is this issue the real reason you are second guessing your feeling for her?
2006-10-16 13:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's to tell...If you have to ask here, do not do her the dis-service of marrying her...I have no idea where you are coming from, but this question doesn't sound so hot. I suspect you are looking for an out, so take it.
2006-10-16 13:36:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did you not know? Is this an internet relationship? If you love her, then race doesn't matter. You may never find love like this again.
2006-10-16 13:50:42 · answer #11 · answered by slimdiva1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋