is it possible after 24 yrs of marriage that my husband who cheated and broke the marriage apart ........actually feels no remorse no guilt .......how can he not care at all anymore after so many years?
2006-10-16 13:22:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some people just care about themselves! It's not that their is something wrong with you! All you can do is love yourself, and make sure to always protect your heart!
2006-10-16 13:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by JaNa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shows no remorse because he is not the one who is hurt, you are. he is cold and uncaring, has no compassion, as hard as it is, you must move on and not blame yourself completely. perhaps he never cared in the way you did,you are judging this situation by how you would feel, if you were in his shoes.i went through the same thing 3 years ago, ofcourse it hurt, but i decided it was easier to get a divorce and move on than suffer anymore at the hands of this man.he'll be back when she kicks him to the curb, but you can expect more hurt if you take him back. to get even is to show you didn't just lie down and die, that you succeeded in life in spite of the injustice done to you.he will only show remorse when he is the one hurting. he has no idea or care of how you are taking it, he is only concerned with his own fun right now. what goes around comes around, and he will one day feel the pain he has dealt you.
2006-10-16 20:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like his mind is made up. He has washed his hands of this relationship and it is time you do the same. Move on you have earned it putting up with this guy for 24 years!
2006-10-16 20:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am truely sorry. Been in that situation before as well, but only been married six years. Sooner or later he will realize that, he does, its just a matter of time. Just act like you dont care anymore, he will straighten up, thats what I done, and he seen it. Hes totally changed himself.
2006-10-16 20:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can empathize with you. Same thing happened to me. 10 years divorced from "my turkey" now and I still haven't come to any understanding? Although I have considered the notion of "male menopause?" There are nice men in the world, hang in there.
2006-10-16 20:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by Thankyou4givengmeaheadache 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible. The men who cheat and break things up that are good (no such thing) would honestly feel despartly ashamed.
2006-10-16 20:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by Just Because 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men are pigs and you married one and just didnt find out for 24 years
2006-10-16 20:30:59 · answer #7 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he never cared. you should know that by now. you sound like you are shocked to know that he don't care. search over the years. you find the truth hidden in your heart of hearts that he never cared. you kept the marriage together, mostly by yourself. did'nt you?
2006-10-16 20:27:42 · answer #8 · answered by susta1951 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently he lost his feelings towards you a long time ago, if he stayed this long, there was something holding him there. There is no remorse if there is no love.
2006-10-16 20:27:32 · answer #9 · answered by spiritwalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he got bored or became tired of putting up with some part of your relationship and he found something new
2006-10-16 20:25:49 · answer #10 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋