Would you go looking for another women or have an affair on your wife if she, cooked a hot dinner for you every day. Bathed you, cut your nails, massage you one a week. And gave you great loving in bed?
My husband keeps telling me he will never cheat on me, that he has no reason to look for it. He has it all at home. But I sometimes find that hard to believe. I feel that temptation can make you do wrong things.
Honest answers please. =)
2006-10-16 13:20:45 · 27 answers · asked by yo_010180 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The ideal woman................
1. June Cleaver in the kitchen.
2. Heidi Klum on his arm in public.
3. A porn star in the bedroom.
Nuff said.
2006-10-16 13:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by dirftwood22 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like he has a really good thing going....however...please remember that we men are visual creatures....if we see some eye candy we will look...and if that candy is offered we may take a bite. That does not mean he loves you any less. You would have two choices well maybe three: 1st, you could get royally angry at him and divorce him.
2nd, You could truly forgive him and by that I mean Never ever throw it up in his face again for any reason other wise you have not forgiven him.
3rd. You could become non-monogamous with him and enjoy the lifestyle. This of course includes choice 2.
Please read the following bit of information just in case it does ever happen and even discuss it with him should he ever be so inclined as to cheat on you. I know it is not the ordinary answer, but I have studied this for a long time and have found it is among the best of answers....I hope he never has the inclination to cheat but if he does....read....
2006-10-16 13:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I have been married for 12 years and my wife does not bathe me or cut my nails, but she can cook and she is great in bed, plus she has a hot body. I have, to date, had no temptation to go elsewhere. Keep the love and romance hot and fresh. Good luck!
2006-10-16 13:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by T Kirk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you may be experiencing a little depression. This does not mean that there is anything wrong in the home or marriage, it could be a chemical or hormonal imbalance. Talk to your doctor. You can also check with your local mental health clinic. This month is national depression screening month. Both of you can go in for testing. The screening is free. In the Kansas City area, it is being done at KCCC on November 5th. It does not mean there is anything wrong, as they also use the data to establish the current base line in America.
2006-10-16 13:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW If u want i'll marry u. most of these replies r a joke.
Honestly and seriously be a porn star in the bedroom, that will do the trick.everyman loves a good woman. a woman who will support him rub his back after a hard day. u seem like u provide that but when it comes to the man's hormones we need crazy sex. just keep doing what u r doing with the addition of abit of sluttiness in the bedroom(yes woman sluttiness for your man isn't bad)and he will not go nowhere but stay with u. Don't listen to do what u want and let him pay u attention and all that other junk.
2006-10-16 14:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, men do not cheat because a wife is bad at any of these things..it is the men themselves...Many men have no problems with monogamy....these are the guys who know who they are, like themselves, do not need ego stroking, and have confidence.
The cheater is the guy who has little self confidence, is insecure in himself as a man, and is always looking for affirmation of his manhood...not very bright guys, that is for sure. No one can give them what they do not have within themselves. Good luck
2006-10-16 13:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey! Even the most attentive, and beautiful women get cheated on. If it's in him to cheat, he'll cheat. If it's not then you could be the biggest ***** and he'd stay loyal. You shouldn't do all those things for him as insurance against infidelity. You should do them because you love him, get pleasure out of doing things for him, and he does the same for you.
2006-10-16 13:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your man is very lucky to have a woman like you. I had a lot less and stayed for 18 yrs. He needs to know that you are a perfect wife.
2006-10-16 13:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by the_saint1963 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He would be crazy to mess around when he has someone like you at home. You sound the the Perfect wife. You should give lessons.
2006-10-16 13:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by old man 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you want me to be honest so you don't have to keep doing those things? Or, tell you there's always a chance he'll stray so keep doing them and more? It's not the THINGS you do or don't do, it's the connection between the two of you (and his outlook on life) that determine the chances of his looking elsewhere.
2006-10-16 13:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋