Im nice,funny{well sort of},out going, respectful,and smart. But no girl likes me. any ides on how i could get a gf?
2006-10-16 13:12:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Trust me -- don't be in a hurry. The right girl will come your way. If you rush it, you'll find yourself with the wrong girl and will be miserable for it. Do what you like doing, and the perfect girl for you will come to you, since she'll be drawn to the same things and places that you are.
2006-10-16 13:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sincere? It's great to be 'outgoing' etc but some girls can feel intimidated by someone who's too bubbly / funny /respectful cos they find it hard to believe you're sincere. Sounds like you might be trying too hard and if girls suss you're not comfortable in your own skin they can feel unsure of you and then will avoid getting involved with you. I'm sure there are girls who do like you, you've probably just not noticed them. If you're consistantly the centre of attention or the life and soul of the party, an interested girl is going to wonder if a relationship could be sustained with you cos you're all things to all (wo)men in all situations. Try sitting still and just noticing your surroundings and the people in them. Maybe you've just been setting your sights on totally the wrong type of girl for you. Be patient, be yourself and you will find love, i promise!! xo
2006-10-16 20:25:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um i geuss u could put yourself out there like i'm single but weant a girl. Don't make it too obvious though cause it could get annoying. And if your're not funny then don't try to be cause thats really lame. The right girl is waiting for u though so don't rush it.
2006-10-16 20:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by menawha j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding the right one takes time, don't rush it. Just continue to be yourself and it will happen. Women like polite, respectful, intelligent and out-going men, and a sense of humor is nice too. Since you seem to have these covered, don't sweat it, it will come to you when it's meant to.
2006-10-16 20:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you what I've told others. If you want to meet a girl whom you wish to have a relationship with, join a group or club in your area that you are interested in. You will not only meet someone who shares the same interest as you (great conversation starter), but you will be learning something new.
Good luck!
2006-10-16 20:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well usually what i do is i am very out going and loud. eveyone in my high school knows my name. i just go up to people and start talking, if you can push yourself to do that then that would help a lot. but some people are shy. if there is a girl that you likr i think you should start to get to know her more and than would lead to more.
2006-10-16 20:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by mbaby1569 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you need a girl friend than just go up to a girl and be nice and maybe you will be friends and later in life you can tell your real feelings to her or just go on chating sites and talk to girls on the computer.
2006-10-16 20:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by amy s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO many Q's like this... WAIT for one to come along! There's nothing girls hate more than a guy who is desperately seeking and thinks they are the bomb... so annoying... :-(
2006-10-16 20:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by reba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart obviously you are just mixing with the wrong crowd. None of them deserve you.
2006-10-16 20:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself, try asking a girl to do something on the weekend
2006-10-16 20:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋