I am 20, never hada gf b/c i'm soo shy. Yet i'm ready to...i think. I want to ask her to a movie on friday? How do i do it? What if she says no? is it awkards after. we have been freinds for 3 months. Do i ask her out as freinds? please give me advice
2006-10-16 13:06:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
When i'm feeling most shy I sort of cop out & say something like "what would you say if..."
in that case if she says "i'd say no" you can turn around & say
"but i didn't ask you did i?" & turn the conversation to something
else effectively & smoothly. The important thing is to keep your
confidence up no matter what & convince yourself that every
situation is salvagable.
even if the absolutely worst happens & the situation is completely unsalvagable (which it won't be! it'll be fine! absolutely fine, if she likes you, she likes you, she won't want to hurt your feelings all you need is confidence & diplomacy which you sound like you have, so you'll be fine) just think "this too shall pass & the best is yet to come so i'll look forward to it.)
enjoy yourself!
2006-10-16 13:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bring it up in casual conversation. Something along the lines of "this movie playing and I really want to see it. Wanna go?" If she turns you down no big deal. Read her body language to to. If she's turned toward you while talking and maintains eye contact, she's most likely interested. Don't be too let down if she says no either. There are pleanty of other females out there. It sucks to be truned down and you just have to accept it and move on.
Good luck!
2006-10-16 20:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by JayEmmBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her. Don't use any stupid lines like "Did it hurt?" "Did what hurt?" "When you fell from heaven" or any variation. It's not funny. Be yourself. Of course it's going to be awkward if she says no, but if you really want to go out with her, do it. Sound confidant, don't mumble, and please don't sound desperate.
2006-10-16 20:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Haley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agold... this is going to sound weird but this helps me. Before I ask a girl out I pray first. I ask God if HE wants me to go out with her to hook it up, if not, don't. THEN, ask her out. Because God is love, He knows best. Hope that helps.
2006-10-16 20:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by bumclown7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋