sorry about the title but i needed soemone to pay atention to this
ok so this guy that i like, and this guy who likes me went out on a date type thing, well nothing happend, we just went to starbucks and quiznoes, and he lives by me, and we like eachother, we havent actually said it yet but like this is my first relationship, and this buy is older then my by a year ( im 13 almost 14 and he is 14 and a half) and it just felt really odd, i had that feeling that like you know im really nervous and at the same time i had that, he is so hot feeling, or omg what the hell, that isnt right, and stuff like that, i know i like him and he likes me but im really not quite sure what to do, please PLEASE help me
oh ya and i go to a secondaary school
2006-10-16 13:05:54 · 13 answers · asked by livers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
also just wanted to add that im 13 and NOT INTRESTED in sex
2006-10-16 13:11:24 · update #1
AND THE TITLE MEANS NOTHING, IT WAS JSUT TO GET SOMEONE TO ANSWER IT KINDA MEAN BUT I NEED HELP
2006-10-16 13:12:06 · update #2
You're 12? You should go home and study and not go out with boys until you're at least 16. Seriously.
2006-10-16 13:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by Elvis W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about getting in each others pants at your age, but the feelings you are getting are just nervous jitters because you like him. You feel uncomfortable about sex because you ARE NOT ready (no matter what you think right now) to do it. It is okay to like each other and to go on dates but if anything makes you fell uncomfortable or bad about yourself then something must be wrong. If he is touching you inappropriately and you don't like it then you should not keep doing it. If you just feel nervous and uncomfortable because you are not used to dating and have never liked a boy like that before then that is just normal. When you feel 100% comfortable with him and 100% confident in yourself then you will know what to do.
2006-10-16 20:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by L.J. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While I am much older than you please consider this. TAKE YOUR TIME! Is he wanting to get into your pants? I honestly can't say.
He may have been nervous as it seems like you were too. It's ok to be nervous. Hang out, get to know one another and remember you have the power to say NO. You are young. Have fun, don't get all into all that into your pants thing yet.
I unfortunately know all to well about jumping into something to fast and then getting hurt. It stinks.
Good luck!
2006-10-16 20:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lori D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a guy, of course he's trying to get in your pants....
There's no question there.
Just go slow and don't do anything stupid like kiss him or anything until you've been around him a month or 2 to see if he really likes you.
Love doesn't usually happen in a day.
2006-10-16 20:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by KIRRA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that you are too young and immature to deal with these kind of problems. Keep playing with your barbies for a few more years and enjoy being a kid.
2006-10-16 20:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by Megs1123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to ya Bratz dolls!
2006-10-16 20:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX - it was your first date - COMPLETELY NORMAL to feel like that. On your next date, try getting him to talk more about himself, what he likes to do, his family, etc. - that will take some of the pressure off of you.
Good Luck!
2006-10-16 20:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by RT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you live in north san bernardino cos there is a starbucks and quiznos right side by side here.. ?
2006-10-16 20:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by scrotumchewingmonster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be calm and get the nervs to ask him
or just go up to him and say srry but i have to do this and then give him a big KISS
2006-10-16 20:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is hott just fool around a bit. make the first move he will like it. if you don't want to haev sex then don't.
2006-10-16 20:08:50 · answer #10 · answered by jason i 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋