Well my "friend" wants to know all my personal secrets and stuff. If I dont tell her then she tries to make my life miserable. She makes me be with the "incrowd" and when I dont tell her she turns the incrowd against me. Well I have another secret that my families do no to want anyone to know! she knows I am hiding something and she asked me and I did not tell her. So should I tell her or keep my family's secret?
2006-10-16 13:02:02 · 19 answers · asked by angie b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know what? I dont really think that she is your friend. She doesnt treat you kindly. Honsetly, Family sooo comes first!! If she treats you like that, dont talk to her. Hang out with a crowd that is for you, in what makes you feel comfortable, and not the crowd that MAKES you do things and making your life miserable. I have done this before. A good choice of friends is definetly the best way to go. But never double cross your family for a friend.
2006-10-16 13:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family comes first, no matter what. Because when everything goes wrong and you feel alone, with no friends. family will always be right by your side. Whether it's the afternoon, midnight, or even 4 A.M. They'll be there. Family is a sacred thing, If you betray your family, you will truly have nothing left. What kind of "friend" is she? She doesn't need to know every last detail about your familys personal issues. Who does she think she is? She has no right to be sticking her nose into someones elses family business. Even if it cost the "inn" crowd to despise you, it is not worth selling out your family. Keep in mind that popularity isn't everything. Would you rather hang out with the cool kids who don't see you as anything, or find a real friend who will help you stand up to these punks who threaten to harm your reputation at the school. That, is a true and hard to find friend. I know that my BEST friend, has been there for be since day one. We've been great friends, she's liek a sister to me. We've been through it all, name it. And the best Middle school and High school memories are that when ever something went down, I was able to turn and look over to my side and there she would be. Don't waste your teenage years on fake girls, find someone what will be by your side and help you fight your battles. I hope you can find a real friend, just like I have. No one can replace her not in a million years. If you can find a friend only half the friend she is to me, you'll understand what im talking about. Anyways, ditch that friend and find yourself a real ginuene person that's worth your time.
2006-10-16 13:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by Liliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family
2006-10-16 13:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by a person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to not think about the secret or make something up that wont go against you
family is first
or else who cares about the incrowd dump the crowd and be loyal to your family
friends come and go
but family is always the same!!
2006-10-16 13:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yu will only have one family and friends will always be ther. You are supposed to protect your family not be against them. I hate the incrowd, why would u wanna hang out wit them?
2006-10-16 13:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of family contributors does come first. in case you have the right family contributors, they're going to constantly be there for you, in assessment to friends who you are able to improve different than for. individually, i think of your being style of clingy and somewhat to jealous approximately your pal and there family contributors. If she needs to spend time with the family contributors enable her. and you mustn't tell her this each and every of the time because of the fact she might desire to get the incorrect theory and in all probability does not prefer you announcing impolite issues approximately her family contributors. BQ: confident.
2016-10-02 09:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the secret, your family always comes first.
2006-10-16 13:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by momcat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be both because your family or friend might not treat u fairly or kindly but the other does. It s my opinion so hope people agree with me.
2015-06-21 09:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by chantel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family
2006-10-16 13:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by caro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FAMILY!!!!!youll regret if you tell her your family secret. from what i can see someone like her might accidentally "slip".and your family will always be there for now and this sounds like just one of those temporary friends.
2006-10-16 13:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by misslikestotalk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋