He is really somthing special normally i like girls in this way and i think of guys as just sex objects but its this guy in world history I think he may like me i like him alot.Sometimes we look at eachother you know stare.Then sometimes i ketch him looking and i stare back but sometimes I get nervouse and look away and sometimes he does to.One time i smiled and he smiled back how should i approach him without putting myself out because im in the closet and if he is gay or bi he is 2 what should i do i really like him and i think he likes me and i dont want to pass this up.
2006-10-16 13:00:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i was in the same boat one time not to long ago i never thought i could actually like like a guy but then i started to if i were you i would just talk to him as a Friends and figure out where his head is you know just get to know him as a buddy first then see where it goes
2006-10-17 03:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by your boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should be friends first like other people are saying. Because once you get to know him you might think about him as a good friend instead of something else.The reason is because you dont really know if his gay or bi.But in my opinion about the stares and smiles i think he might think that you are a great person and wants to be friends with you but you might be getting the wrong idea.So if his that great i would say just be friends and nothing more.Another reason might be that if you go and say Awkward stuff to another guy and his not *** then he is not going to see you the same way he did before.So just be friends ^_^.
2006-10-16 14:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by Killua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like somone said already try to make friends with him , see what he like u can normaly tell by what he wears or music find a common intrest and make converstion about it . Try not to make it more difficult than it has to be . I face the same problem but things i would say are moving a littel more swiftly . I am intersted to know the outcome i think your the person that made a Yahoo IM just to talk to me lol... but ummm yea im intrested best of luck with all that
2006-10-16 13:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont' move too quickly. There's nothing wrong with talking to him after class. Maybe he is too shy to make the first move. If you are not sure if he is gay or not, don't try anything that will get you beat up. You won't know if you are in love with him until you hang out and get to know him. Right now it is just a crush.
2006-10-16 14:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by gc27858 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just catch him alone and start the conversation with, I see you staring at me in class, do you like guys or ... do u like me.... or are you gay.... something that will not embarrasse him and not you either. you will find out real soon, then befriend him and maybe something will happen. I mean really approach him the way you normally would a girl .
2006-10-16 13:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by jumpinjackdw 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope because i tried it before and properly i might want to easily not in any respect evaluate doing it back. the element that holds me decrease back is worry of rejection and ridicule. definite anybody says tell them the way you sense about them and he too might want to have some thoughts for you in difficulty-free words its a lie they not in any respect do and tried appearing on a secret weigh down extra situations than I must have and that i determined i visit not in any respect do it back...its truly embarrassing.
2016-12-04 21:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so not the person to answer this since I can be very shy. I think I would simmer a steady flirt and see what happens. Good luck.
2006-10-16 13:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow.. i wish that happened to me ... i think you should find a time a ask him out to starbucks to see how it goes. Dont have to push to anything, and sit down enjoy a coffee and conversation to see where it leads to. Even if nothing happens, a good friendship is also a good start. good luck
2006-10-16 13:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by joe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first get to know him and then tell him about your feels. I was friends with my Boyfriend for 6 yrs before we started to date.
2006-10-17 00:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it it's better to know how he feels than to wonder about it forever!
2006-10-16 13:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋